Peter J. Smilikis

December 8, 2020
SMILIKIS, PETER J. photo

    Peter John Smilikis, 82, of Nashua, passed away Tuesday afternoon, December 8, 2020 at Catholic Medical Center in Manchester. 

    Born in Nashua on January 13, 1938, he was a son of the late Alphonse and Amelia (Balukevich) Smilikis. Peter grew up in Hudson, NH and was a graduate of Alvirne High School, Class of 1956. He graduated from the University of New Hampshire in 1960 with a Bachelor’s Degree in Mathematics. During his years at UNH, he played on and captained the Wildcats basketball team.  In 1996 he was inducted into the UNH Hall of Fame for his record-breaking play and continues to hold records for number of rebounds in a single game, rebounds in a single season and single season rebounding average.  After graduation, Peter served 4 years in the Army and resigned as a Captain to relocate and raise his family.  Peter’s computer career started in Cambridge, MA after leaving the service.  He spent many years commuting to Boston which continued throughout his career and finally took him to clients and banking institutions throughout Eastern Massachusetts.

   Family was everything to Peter, and his greatest passion beyond family was basketball. His vacations were spent taking his kids to college, road trips to the Midwest for football games and volunteering for many summers at the Chris Ford, formerly Wayne Embry, Basketball Camp at Daniel Webster College.  His love for his wife, his kids, grandkids, brothers, brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews and many friends was beyond measure. You could always find him holding a grandchild in his huge hands or putting them in a car to head to the Big One for an ice cream cone.  He was extremely humble and grateful for his life.  When asked, “How are you doing, Dad?” he always responded with “I can’t complain.”.  When his children were young, Peter loved coaching for Nashua Biddy League basketball.  His love for coaching continued in his later years for the Bishop Guertin Junior Varsity High School team.  While coaching, he was dedicated to instilling the importance of academic excellence while being a student athlete. 

    He is survived by his beloved wife of 60 years, Susan Elizabeth (Lister) Smilikis  and their six children; James Smilikis and his wife Mary Pat, Peter J. Smilikis Jr., Anne Smilikis, Robert Smilikis, Katherine (Smilikis) Prout and her husband Ed, and Margaret (Smilikis) Freedman and her husband Pete; nine grandchildren, Megan and John Smilikis, Sarah, Maya and Molly Freedman, Jack and Max Prout, and Anya and Andrew Bayazitov; two brothers, William Smilikis and his wife Pat, and the late Michael Smilikis, who passed away in 2005; as well as many loved nieces, nephews and cousins.

     Due to the current pandemic, private services will be held for his family. Arrangements are in the care of the FARWELL FUNERAL SERVICE, 18 Lock Street, Nashua. www.farwellfuneralservice.com

23 Comments on Peter J. Smilikis

Mark C Hayward said : Guest Report Aug 20, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I just checked to see if Pete was still around.....he and I taught together at Wayne Embry camp and became(at the time) good friends. The guys basketball talents continued well into his 40s and 50s,,,we'd play regularly....I cracked his ribs during a pickup game....I never heard the end of that! I am so sorry to hear he is gone....I had great respect and love for the man.

Ed Marshall said : Guest Report Aug 02, 2024 at 8:35 PM

Pete was a great friend I will never forget him

David Flewelling class of "56" said : Guest Report Jan 08, 2021 at 10:39 PM

As teenagers Pete would often ride his bicycle to my house on third street in Hudson where we would play basketball with classmates Dave Dery and Len Miller for hours. What a wonderful laugh Pere had. A finer gentleman I have not known.

Diane DallaMura said : Guest Report Dec 24, 2020 at 12:42 PM

Sue, sending love and condolences. I have so many wonderful memories from Hawaii to the summers at the Coppins camp! Thank you for arranging our little reunion a few years ago. Pete ways a special man. Love, Diane

Donald Bernard said : Guest Report Dec 17, 2020 at 6:30 PM

It was an honor to be his physician

Vincent C. McCarthy father of Neal and Brian McCarthy Nashua, NH & Cape Coral, Florida said : Guest Report Dec 17, 2020 at 6:09 PM

Sue and greater family: I was saddened to learn of Pete's passing recently. I ran across the info. online by happenstance. I was aware of his illness for some time and had inquired a while back about the possibility of a visitation at the home where he resided, but was advised that it would be a waste of time as his memory had failed terribly. I am so sorry to lose someone I knew quite well after a long tenure in Nashua basketball with both my own boys and Pete's boys later on serving as his assistant. Pete's one constant was his devotion to all his family and his enthusiasm for coaching and teaching young people. He will be missed and I am privileged to have known him well for all these years.

Gayle Patria DiMasi said : Guest Report Dec 15, 2020 at 10:13 AM

Pete Jr. and family: I'm sending lots of positive thoughts and healing for you during this time.

Bob Desmond said : Guest Report Dec 14, 2020 at 11:13 AM

Sue, My deepest sympathies to you and you family.

Stacey Allen said : Guest Report Dec 13, 2020 at 3:02 PM

Sending the entire Smilikis family our thoughts and prayers. I know how much your Dad is loved and will be missed.

Deb Hughes said : Guest Report Dec 13, 2020 at 1:37 PM

The Hughes family offers their condolences during this difficult time. We have such fond memories of the wonderful times our families gathered together. With sympathy in this time of sadness may you find hope, comfort and peace. God Bless

Theodore m Sobozenski, Sr. said : Guest Report Dec 12, 2020 at 5:44 PM

Sue, so sorry to learn of Peter's passing. I was at UNH when Peter played basketball, but didn't to see many games. It was several years after graduation that I really got to know Peter. He was terrific person, kind and easy going. He is now at peace and will always be remembered for his spirit and kindness. Sending God's Blessing to his family at this difficult time.

Jim Hunt and Debbie said : Guest Report Dec 12, 2020 at 12:51 PM

Jim we are so sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. Our hearts go out to you, your Mom and your entire family during this difficult time. He will always be with you in your heart and all your wonderful memories. Your Dad was an amazing man. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Henry Roy said : Guest Report Dec 12, 2020 at 12:30 PM

Sue- Our sincere sympathies to you and your family. Peter and I were roommates at Lambda Chi and had many memorable times over the four years at UNH. He was a humble and great guy and will be missed by all. Rest in peace my friend. Butch & Nancy Roy

Susan (Ray) Donnelly said : Guest Report Dec 11, 2020 at 11:28 PM

Sending my love and prayers to Sue and her entire family. From the first day I met you and Pete, I knew you would be a part of mine and Ray’s family. What a way to love your family and UNH. We have so many homecoming memories and meeting your entire family was such a joy. Pete was so special to Ray and I will never forget the Friday nights at your home before UNH homecoming Sue you have the most wonderful & loving family ever. Miss you. Love, Susan Donnelly

Nick and Susan Mandravelis said : Guest Report Dec 11, 2020 at 9:12 PM

We were saddened to hear of Pete's passing. Our memories of him are mostly from his years on the UNH basketball team and ensuing alumni activities, but even in that limited exposure it was evident what a wonderful man he was. May he rest in peace and his memory be eternal.

JoAnn (Smilikis) Keegan said : Guest Report Dec 11, 2020 at 2:58 PM

My sincere condolences to Peter and his family. He will be missed by many. He was a fantastic husband, father and grandfather.

Linda High Brodeur said : Guest Report Dec 11, 2020 at 1:08 PM

On behalf of the entire Bishop Guertin Community, I offer our deepest condolences during this time of loss. Coach was an incredibly positive influence for so many young men and women here at our school. He will be truly be missed. May the love and care of your family and friends offer you comfort in the days ahead. With heartfelt sympathy Linda Brodeur, President

Alan Richardson said : Guest Report Dec 11, 2020 at 11:44 AM

So many people in the Nashua area knew Pete for his basketball talent, but he was much more than that. My personal contact with Pete only took place in the last 20 years or so. We reminisced about basketball play in the Sanders Basketball League and common friends in the Nashua/Hudson community. Susan might remember me from some recent phone conversation with her. My condolences go out to Susan and the family. Alan Richardson(NHS 1961) from southern RI

Jerry and Shirley Spade said : Guest Report Dec 11, 2020 at 12:01 AM

Shirley and I were fortunate to have Pete as coach of our two son's Biddy League basketball teams in the 1970's, 7 years apart. Although they didn't play high school ball, Pete's emphasis on skill improvement, teamwork, fair play, and academics helped them develop the interpersonal skills to succeed in school and later in their professional careers and family lives. We also shared family membership at Nashua Swim and Tennis with Pete, Sue, and family for many years, including a monthly couples tennis social and a weekly men's doubles tennis with six players alternating. Pete considered tennis more as a recitational pastime compared to basketball. With tennis, he enjoyed socializing with a few beers afterward more than playing tennis.

Steven James Gignac said : Guest Report Dec 10, 2020 at 11:10 PM

It's with a heavy heart and so many fond memories of my uncle Peter John Smilikis I send my condolences. He was an inspiration to me growing up. How he carried himself, his work ethic, and how he loved his family. God bless you Uncle Pete, Love Steven.

Janet Frambach said : Guest Report Dec 10, 2020 at 8:39 PM

Margaret my friend..I am so sorry for you and your entire families loss. Your father sounds like a truly amazing person. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

Stacey and Todd Lewis said : Guest Report Dec 10, 2020 at 8:32 PM

We are so sorry for your loss. He built a wonderful family and were his greatest source of pride. Peace, strength, and love to all so you in this difficult time.

Den Jordan said : Guest Report Dec 10, 2020 at 8:31 PM

I am so sorry for the loss of you father. My heart goes out to you and your family. Love, Deb

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