Atty. Gerald R. Prunier

October 18, 2022
PRUNIER, GERALD R.

Attorney Gerald Prunier, 81, a longtime resident of Hollis and Nashua, NH died peacefully on Tuesday afternoon, October 18, 2022, with his family by his side. He passed after suffering from a catastrophic stroke experienced while playing golf at Overlook Country Club where he owned the first tee time every Saturday morning for over 30 years.

Gerry was born on October 20, 1940, in Worcester, Massachusetts, the son of the late George and Theresa Prunier. He is survived by Estelle (Dumaine) Prunier, of Nashua, with whom in 1963 after her cousin, Philip Caron arranged a blind date for them. Their love story began then and lasted 59 years of marriage. Throughout his young life he worked hard for his uncle’s masonry company and helped raise his six brothers and sisters: Denise LeBlanc, George Prunier, Annette Leger, Bernie Caron, Jeannine Voveris, and Robert Prunier. Gerry was the eldest, he loved them deeply, and they each made him feel equally appreciated with plenty of blueberry muffins, flowers, and impromptu visits.

After graduating from Assumption Prep School in 1959, Gerry attended the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, MA, graduating in 1963. After one year of business school at Columbia University Graduate School of Business, he moved on to Boston College Law School earning his Juris Doctorate in 1967. Gerry began his law career when he was hired by Thomas Leonard in the same year. Many respected attorneys influenced him over his 55-year career, too many to name, but each is remembered in his family’s hearts. He eventually opened his own law practice in Nashua, NH, offering expertise in land use and real estate development. He is remembered for being a major contributor to the growth and economic stability of the Nashua region.

Gerry remained loyal to his community until the end. He was elected to the Nashua Board of Education in 1967 and Chairman of the Board in 1971. He was the past President of the Nashua YMCA and past President of the Nashua Chamber of Commerce. Additionally, Gerry served as the Director of the Nashua Children’s Home, was a former Trustee of Nashua Memorial Hospital (Southern NH Regional Medical Center), former Director of the Nashua Trust Company, a member of the Bishop Guertin School Board and past President of the Nashua Bar Association. He remained a faithful member of the Rotary Club of Nashua and Nashua Business & Industrial Development Authority (BIDA). He worked his magic in countless deals, throughout numerous courtrooms, and danced his way through myriad Planning and Zoning Board meetings throughout New Hampshire. Gerry was also a longtime member of the Nashua Country Club, where he loved to play golf and dine with Estelle.

Gerry was an avid sports enthusiast. He played basketball and football in his youth, and these passions led him to several volunteer coaching positions. He started with coaching his son Rob’s Nashua biddy basketball team and CYO basketball team at the Parrish of the Resurrection. His passion for coaching influenced many youth in Nashua. Later he and Rob coached several AAU basketball teams together. When he retired as a coach, he stood tall and loud on the sidelines, even when it got him thrown out of a gym or two. Regardless of this, he always showed up for the next game (thank goodness the refs let him back in). His love for Bishop Guertin basketball (boys and girls) spanned over 40-years, and he was a fixture in the BG gym.

Gerry and Estelle raised a family of three children: Rob, Sarah, and Amy. His children grew up watching their parent’s love affair continuously grow and strengthen through good and tough times. Ask any of his children today and they will emphatically say that their parents were their absolute role models. Gerry gave much of himself to his community, but he always put his children first…and they knew it. He showed up to everything: games, art shows, births, Sunday morning coffee…everything. He taught his children what a kind and loving man is, how to look for one and how to be one. His grandchildren were often reminded that he was the exemplar and that “we all need to be more like Peperé”.

Bethany (Rob’s wife), Sean (Sarah’s husband), and Kelsey (Amy’s husband) are the extra children Gerry and Estelle always wanted. He treated them like a daughter and sons, and they consider Gerry their second dad. Gerry had nine grandchildren: Caley, Nick, Sam, and Tess (Rob and Bethany); Maisy (Sarah and Sean); Emerson, Jeremy, Jackson, and Tatum (Amy and Kelsey). They were the light of his life; they gave him so much joy and he made sure that each of them knew how special they were to him. Whether he was calling them simply to check in, showing up at their sports games, or dressing up as a zookeeper for Halloween – they felt his love.

Now comes the love story. Gerry always told his children about the blind date that changed his life. He saw Estelle walk down the stairs of her Fifield Street house and he immediately knew that he was going to marry her. Every time Estelle looks at their wedding picture she says there was no boy in Nashua that could compare to Gerry. They enjoyed 59-years of marriage. When they would walk by one another in the house, they would kiss. When they would drive together, they would hold hands. Even when they bickered, they never remembered it for long. They were best friends, lovers forever, and what their children aspire to be like. Gerry Prunier is an icon. His family will love him forever and continue to pass on his light.

Calling hours will be held at the FARWELL FUNERAL HOME, 18 Lock Street, Nashua on Monday, October 24th from 2 to 4 and 6 to 9 p.m. and Tuesday, October 25th from 4 to 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in the Parish of the Resurrection, 449 Broad Street, Nashua, Wednesday, October 26th at Noon. Kindly meet at the church. The family has requested that donations may be sent in Gerry’s memory to: https://familypromisesnh.org/ To leave an online message of condolence, please visit www.farwellfuneralservice.com

38 Comments on Atty. Gerald R. Prunier

Jane & Bob Wass said : Guest Report Nov 05, 2022 at 1:48 PM

We were so saddened to hear of Gerry’s passing, especially as he was looking forward to doing so much in his retirement years. He was our lawyer and treated us like we had been a friend for years. He loved his wife and family so much. Gif Bless him! We send our love to his wife and family. He will be hard to replace!

Dave Fortin and family said : Guest Report Oct 27, 2022 at 1:48 PM

Sincerest condolences to all his family and friends on the passing of our friend Gerry. It was really nice to hear 2 beautiful eulogies at the Mass yesterday and see a sampling of the lives that Gerry touched. My father Dr. Wilfrid Fortin was fortunate to have worked with Gerry on various real estate projects for many years up until he passed in 2015. I also worked with Gerry for many years myself and spoke to him shortly before his passing. I always felt he had my back and unfortunately there are only a few attorneys I can say that about. I was also fortunate to have chatted with him at NCC about a month ago: As usual he was always smiling and you could always sense the "happy to be doing what I love" vibe in his demeanor. Above all he was just a nice guy. My mom Jeanne who is 84 and has "seen better days" sends her personal condolences to Estelle whom she knew long before I was alive. Godspeed Gerry. Rest in Peace.

Cheryl Guiney said : Guest Report Oct 27, 2022 at 11:51 AM

Estelle & Family, We are Deeply saddened to hear of Gerry's passing. Our sincere and heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Pat & Cheryl Guiney

Shawn McCullion said : Guest Report Oct 27, 2022 at 2:16 AM

I've had a long basketball journey but it all started in Nashua. I've had a lot of great coaches but the first was Gerry. I made sure I told him that every time I saw him. He coached us to a New England championship in CYO. I've been part of an NBA team for 11 years but still consider that one of the greatest coaching performances I've ever seen. He was a great person and leader in his life and will be missed by all.

Steve Bolton said : Guest Report Oct 26, 2022 at 12:24 PM

Estelle, Rob, Sarah, and Amy, I very much regret that covid prevents me from attending the services and expressing my condolences in person. I have known and held Gerry in the highest regard for more than 40 years. I have regarded him as a mentor and cherish the memories of the years we worked together. My best wishes go out to you on this sad occasion. Steve

Kristen Dion-Baker said : Guest Report Oct 26, 2022 at 10:27 AM

Estelle, Rob, Sarah and Amy and your families. The sadness that abounds the passing of Gerry is immeasurable. I will always remember our families getting together. Gerry was so involved with his family and the love and admiration he has for Estelle is beautiful, rare and will continue. He will always be an inspiration to me and so many. Rest In Peace ❤️ I am missing this due to Covid, but there in my heart.

Daniel O'Neil said : Guest Report Oct 26, 2022 at 10:08 AM

I first met Gerry with CYO basketball. Great competition between Parish of the Resurrection and Manchester CYO teams ! He was great lawyer, occasionally venturing for clients into Manchester. As good a lawyer and coach that Gerry was, he was a great husband, father, grandfather and friend to many! My prayers are with Gerry and the entire Prunier family ! Dan O'Neil/Manchester

Debora and Michael Pignatelli said : Guest Report Oct 25, 2022 at 4:23 PM

The Prunier family has lost its beloved patriarch and Nashua has lost a well-respected leader, whose public service on the Board of Education, the Rotary Club, The YMCA and The Nashua Children's Home, among others, should be remembered.

Joe Laplante said : Guest Report Oct 25, 2022 at 2:34 PM

I am fortunate to have a great father who is still with us. But Gerry was, unquestionably, a second father, and even if you don't need a second father, it's good for any kid to have one. Estelle was a second mother. And their three children are my oldest friends. Rest in peace, Gerry. You definitely earned a rest. And God bless your family.

Ron and Donna MacLaren said : Guest Report Oct 25, 2022 at 7:44 AM

Estelle, So sad to hear of Gerry's passing, Our sincere and heartfelt sympathy to you and your entire family. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you during this difficult time. Ron and Donna MacLaren

Gerry Reppucci said : Guest Report Oct 24, 2022 at 4:42 PM

Gerry was a very kind person and I will miss him. He was generous with his time and with his expertise – that is to say his knowledge of land use law and the history of land development in Nashua. I needed his advice more than once – and he always found time for me. Great guy – and I’m glad I knew him.

Bob Blaisdell said : Guest Report Oct 24, 2022 at 2:46 PM

I met Gerry when I was on the Board of Assessors as he was representing various citizens with their land related issues. He was a true professional in every sense of the word. Later Gerry and I had a business relationship as my corporate attorney. After that Gerry and I would talk at various charitable events for which he was constantly involved. He was one of the kindest people I know and had a big heart for all those in need. He helped many in need and never bragged about it. He will be sorely missed by many in this community. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this difficult time. Rist in peace Gerry!

Mark Piekarski said : Guest Report Oct 24, 2022 at 10:57 AM

To all those in the Prunier family, my deepest condolences to you. He will be greatly missed as he was so much a part of our family too.

John McNeil said : Guest Report Oct 24, 2022 at 8:49 AM

Deepest sympathies to the Prunier family. Gerry was an awesome person and will be truly missed. He was a bright spot to my Saturday morning routine at the golf course over the past 30 years or more.

Peter Chaloner said : Guest Report Oct 23, 2022 at 3:12 PM

I first met Gerry playing noon basketball at the YMCA back in the 1960's, 70's. We had some great games with and against each other. Also went on a week's cruise with him and Estelle, the Tancreti's and others. Of course I knew of his talents as a real estate lawyer and how everyone wanted to hire Gerry for their tough real estate transaction. Yes, he certainly worked his magic in countless deals. I am very sad to see that Gerry has passed on. I had not seen him lately. I want to express my sincere condolences to Estelle, Rob and the entire extended family. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Peter Chaloner

Bill & Tess Kopka said : Guest Report Oct 23, 2022 at 12:17 PM

Estelle & Jeannine, Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your families. God is always with you and you shall be reunited in Heaven.

Sharon Stone Mazurek said : Guest Report Oct 23, 2022 at 10:31 AM

To the entire Prunier Family. I will always remember that smile on Gerald's face. He was a great man. And he passed away doing one of his favorite hobbies. But Family was always first with Gerald. And for all the goodness that he did for others, never wanting recognition for any of them. I know that his reward in Heaven will be great. Losing someone so special is difficult, but keep his spirit with you. To the entire family of Gerald Prunier my sincere and heartfelt sympathies to all of you. Sincerely, Sharon Stone Mazurek

Susan Prolman said : Guest Report Oct 23, 2022 at 8:20 AM

Dear Estelle, Rob, Sarah, and Amy, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope it's a consolation that Gerry lived a full life and was doing what he loved to do at the time of his stroke. Sending love and healing to you and your family.

Bob Duval said : Guest Report Oct 23, 2022 at 6:55 AM

My sympathy on your loss. He was a pleasure to work with and a remarkable man - one of a kind!

Bob Duval said : Guest Report Oct 23, 2022 at 6:52 AM

My sympathy on your loss. He was a pleasure to work with and a remarkable man - one of a kind!

Carl Andrade said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 9:26 PM

I met Gerry when I was a young Nashua Alderman first elected in 1978. Those were fast growing times in Nashua and Gerry was always in front of one commitee or another explaning why a variance or rezoning was nessesary. I learned a lot listnining to his presentations and arguments. Whether I ended up agreeing or not he was always a gentleman and respectful. I enjoyed working with him to work out results that were in our opinion best for Nashua's future. I saw the human side of Gerry selling Christmass trees beside him for Rotary and later having an office at 20 Tragalgar Sq. in the same building as Gerry. We often spoke in the coffee shop on the first floor. I will mis my friend and offer my and Tina's deepest condolances to his large and wonderful family. Carl Andrade -Nashua NH

Beth H. Davis said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 8:49 PM

Thinking about my interactions with Gerry over the years, I can honestly say that I cannot think of another attorney with whom I’d rather have worked with, or “against” (to the extent real estate attorneys are adversaries….)! Gerry was always kind, humble, honest and straightforward, and his no-nonsense approach to problem solving served as a model to those of us who lacked the wisdom of his experience. As the years passed, I felt great pride when Gerry would occasionally call me to ask me if I was familiar with some obscure real estate form usually sent by some out of state attorney. I will miss him very much, but I feel so privileged to have known him. He was a unique and lovely man. My deepest condolences to his family.

Barbara and Bob Baldizar said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 7:06 PM

Our heartfelt sympathy to Estelle and the entire Prunier family. Our hearts are with you at this time. Please know that you are all loved and Gerry will never be forgotten. With deepest sympathy.

Peter Bennett said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 3:10 PM

I worked with Gerry on many legal matters over the years as a member of the Nashua Bar. He was a pleasure to deal with because, although he could be a strong advocate, he also had the ability to resolve problems in a way that made sense. He was extremely knowledgable and effective as a zoning and planning attorney and in his work on non-profit boards and other community organizations in the Nashua area. He was always friendly, helpful and collegial, and will be missed by all of those whose lives he touched. My sincere condolences to his family.

Gary Sullivan said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 3:04 PM

Gerry You left a mark for sure, really enjoyed you as did everyone else.

Michael, Marybeth, Bryn and Mason said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 1:56 PM

What a fantastic person! Gerry was a role model to so many. Let’s all be more like Gerry!! Estelle, you were the first Prunier I met. Loved and respected you from the start. I watched as you and Gerry fostered a strong family full of love, drive, and respect with such unassuming passion. It flowed into your friendships as well. Michael and I are so grateful to Gerry for his help along our journey and continue to strive to be like you and Gerry. We feel blessed to have know Gerry and to call you and your family friends. God bless you Gerry Prunier and thank you for being such a great example to all. 🙏❤️

Phil Grandmaison said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 1:51 PM

Deepest sympathies to Estelle, Rob and entire Prunier family on passing of a tried and true friend . Phil & Ann Grandmaison Valencia, CA

Andrea Amodeo-Vickery said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 1:30 PM

Gerry was always so kind to me as a young lawyer starting out in Nashua and he remained a warm colleague throughout my years in Nashua. I still would see him at events after I moved to my Manchester office and we always shared memories of the good old days of the Nashua Bar as well as of our mutual friends. He was always the same Gerry, no matter how much time had passed between encounters. He was the poster boy for collegiality among lawyers. I will miss him. My deep condolences to his family.

Steve & Jacki Comeau said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 12:48 PM

I worked at 20 Trafalgar Square near him for many years, and I got to know him particularly well in the CEO Golf League - even partnered with him one year. He made all the bad lawyer jokes look very foolish. He was a gentleman - passionate, at times, but always a gentleman. He was very proud of his barely daylight Saturday morning tee time at Overlook, and kept his friends close there - he even hit me with a golf shot once. No, I did not sue him. Estelle, Gerry, Jacki and I once made a daytrip to Foxwoods together. Well, Gerry was not pleased to leave Estelle unsupervised in a casino, but Jacki made sure all went well. What did Gerry do? He and Steve went to what was probably the best day of his golf life. Best score? No. But if you knew anything about Gerry, you know his first love after his family was with golf balls (several 50 gallon barrels in his garage testify to that). On that day, there were almost no others on the course. We owned the space. Gerry, with retriever in hand, almost single-handedly put the casino out of business, I believe his total take (of only the very nicest Titleist balls) was about 180. His golf bag was bloated beyond capacity, he could not close all the zippers, and he could simply not lift it to put it in the trunk. I had to help him do that, and it may have been the onset of my spinal stenosis. One happy guy - and he never asked Estelle how much she donated. As I said, he was a gentleman always (except if you were in a slow group in front of him at the course). His office was always open to any friend with a problem or question. A special friend and a great loss to us all. Thanks Gerry.

Bill& Fran Grady said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 12:07 PM

Mr. Prunier's remarkable life of faith, family and service to our community is a standard of excellence I will measure myself against the rest of my life. To the entire Prunier family, may the heartbreak of your loss be one day softened by the legacy of love this wonderful man gave to our world.

Linda Brodeur said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 11:56 AM

On behalf of the entire Bishop Guertin Family, I offer our heartfelt condolences during this time of unbearable loss. Gerry was not only an icon in Nashua, he was a legend at Bishop Guertin. His work and support over the past 40 years has been profound. We will forever be indebted to his service and foresight. We will remember him always. To the entire Prunier Family, we hope that the love of your friends and family will offer you solace in the difficult days ahead. Please be assured of our ongoing thoughts, prayers and love. With deepest sympathy; Linda Brodeur, President on behalf of us all

R. Brian Snow said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 11:27 AM

Gerry was ever the gentleman, superb lawyer and warm friend. I always enjoyed speaking with him in all our professional dealings. His loss to his family, the legal community and the City of Nashua is considerable and he will be greatly missed.

Ann T Ackerman said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2022 at 1:28 AM

Estelle and family, My deepest sympathies for your loss. May his memory be a blessing, Ann Ackerman

Dan Carlon said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2022 at 10:06 PM

Such great memories of Mr Prunier as our CYO coach and him leading us to a New England championship in Burlington Vermont as 8 th graders! Such a great man and a role model to us all. My thoughts and prayers go out to Robbie , Mrs Prunier and the entire Prunier family.

Dottie Tormey said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2022 at 10:03 PM

A beautifully written obituary that truly tells who Gerry really was - "one of a kind". He will be missed. My deepest sympathy to Estelle and family.

Mark & Andrea Bernier said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2022 at 9:22 PM

As friends of the Prunier family, we offer our deepest condolences. Their family is one of love, of giving, and of sharing the best of what they have to offer to the world around them. We’re certain that was true of Gerry and find comfort in knowing that those around him were truly blessed.

Mark & Andrea Bernier said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2022 at 9:22 PM

As friends of the Prunier family, we offer our deepest condolences. Their family is one of love, of giving, and of sharing the best of what they have to offer to the world around them. We’re certain that was true of Gerry and find comfort in knowing that those around him were truly blessed.

Steve Auger said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2022 at 8:51 PM

As skilled of an attorney as Gerry was, he was an even better person. Gerry always had a warm smile and a handshake every time I saw him. Each time I went to his office on business, he made it a point to sit and chat - not about work, but about life...the stuff that mattered. Gerry was an icon in the Nashua community who will not soon be forgotten. My deepest condolences to his family.

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