Dr. Robert R. Moheban

October 16, 2023
Moheban, Robert R.

Dr. Robert R. Moheban, affectionately known as Dr. Mo, passed away unexpectedly, but peacefully, with his beloved family by his side on October 16, 2023. He was the son of Haskel and Khanom Jaan Moheban and was born and raised in Tehran, Iran in a large and loving family. He attended medical school in Tehran, with French instruction, and moved to the U.S. in 1956 to pursue his medical career. He completed his general surgery internship and residency, as well as his vascular/thoracic fellowship, at several Harvard teaching hospitals in Boston. During his training, Robert became chief surgical resident, a teaching fellow and he also met his wife of 62 years, Cynthia, who was a nurse.

Robert became a board certified general and vascular/thoracic surgeon and practiced in Nashua, NH for 35 years. He established a private surgical practice affiliated with St. Joseph’s Hospital and Memorial Hospital (Southern New Hampshire Medical Center) where he became Chief of Surgery, Chairman of the Surgical Department, Director of the Trauma Service and President of the Medical Staff. In addition, he served on or headed numerous professional committees and boards at both Nashua hospitals before and after his retirement. He was considered one of the most skilled and compassionate surgeons in the region and he collaborated with colleagues throughout New Hampshire and Massachusetts. He selflessly provided advice and guidance to fellow physicians and those in training. His family enjoyed learning that an Executive at Blue Cross/Blue Shield traveled to Nashua for medical care because, according to the BC/BS records, he was not only the busiest surgeon in the state of New Hampshire, but he also had the lowest complication rate. At his retirement celebration, a Hospital Administrator said that God had touched his family through Robert’s hands. He provided care to all regardless of their ability to pay and never turned away a patient in need of surgical care. He truly loved his career and never complained about the long hours or being called out in the middle of the night. Robert was happiest performing some of the most complicated medical procedures and his commitment to excellence and compassionate care was one of his greatest gifts.

In addition to his professional accomplishments, Robert was a successful real estate developer and admired for his community service and many philanthropic contributions. He was the cofounder of the Boys and Girls Club of Greater Nashua and a long-time board member where he established the Moheban Family Scholarship Fund. A percentage of this endowed fund is distributed annually to deserving club members who are furthering their education. Robert enjoyed meeting the recipients at the annual luncheon and hearing about their future plans. He received the annual “Man and Boy” award for his mentorship. He has also been an active member of the Lions Club for over 50 years and was recently presented with a life membership. In addition, Robert was a member of the Board of Directors for Home Health and Hospice for over 15 years, an organization that was dear to his heart. He had great respect and admiration for the hospice workers and considered them angels. He was a board member of the New Hampshire Cancer Society, where he was part of the Commission on Cancer, and was a Cancer Liaison Physician for the American College of Surgeons. Robert could also be found volunteering at the local soup kitchen where he found great satisfaction helping those in need.  All of these contributions culminated in Robert receiving the Humanitarian Award from the Nashua Charitable Foundation for dedicating countless hours of his time and energy to various charities. One of his proudest moments was being selected, as a Community Hero, to carry the Olympic torch through the streets of Nashua for the 1996 Cross Country Olympic Relay. Lighting the cauldron in front of a cheering hometown crowd of 40,000, which was one of the largest crowds along the route, was a thrill and an honor.

Robert’s greatest achievement was raising his loving family with his wife Cynthia by his side. They were married in 1961 and had 4 beautiful children followed by 9 adoring grandchildren. He was the patriarch of a large extended family who turned to him for advice and guidance. One of his proudest gifts to his family was building a vacation home on Cape Cod where the family frequently gathered and created lasting memories. He had a special bond with his children and all his beloved grandchildren.  In addition to large family vacations, “Papa” took his five grandsons and his four granddaughters on annual separate special trips to Grand Cayman. His family will cherish forever the last trip they all took with him to Greece this summer where he enjoyed every moment of “togetherness.” Robert had an incredible zest for life which was filled with fun and adventure. He went on an African safari in his late 80’s where he captivated people from all over the world with his charm and charisma. He was unfailingly kind and unforgettably magnificent with the purest of souls. Robert left a beautiful legacy filled with love and generosity. He was larger than life with a vibrant personality and he knew how to make everyone he met feel special. He will be missed by all that were blessed to have known him.

Robert is survived by his wife Cynthia Olenik Moheban, son Steven Moheban, daughter Susan Moheban Russo and her husband Paul, daughter Dr. Carol Moheban, daughter Kara Moheban McLoy and her husband Jason, and his beloved grandchildren Michael, Nicholas, Sophia, Paul, Isabelle, Jack, Olivia, Jake and Brooke. He is also survived by an extended loving family including his sisters Ehteram (Farokh) Shayani, Parvin Cohen, Dokhi Sassooni and her husband Saeed, and his brother Dr. Mansour Moheban and his wife Louise.  His beloved older sister, Mohtaram Zagaroff, predeceased him.

Robert will be laid to rest on October 20, 2023 with a private service. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in honor of Robert to The Boys and Girls Club of Greater Nashua (www.bgcn.com), Home Health and Hospice Care in Nashua (www.hhhc.org) and The Nashua Lions Club, PO Box 3361, Nashua, NH 03061.

The Farwell Funeral Service, 18 Lock Street, Nashua is assisting the family with arrangements. To leave an online message of condolence, please visit www.farwellfuneralservice.com

24 Comments on Dr. Robert R. Moheban

Lisa Wilson said : Guest Report Nov 05, 2023 at 6:31 AM

I only met Dr. Moheban once, it was in 1995 when I was in Nursing school. I had to do a rotation in the E.R. Dr Moheban was the surgeon. He was kind, compassionate and had such professionalism. For only meeting him once he certainly made an impression on me. I also went to school with his daughter Susan, never really knew her. But everyone knew she was Dr. Moheban's daughter, as he was a well known great doctor. Sorry for your loss.

The Cynthia Sweeney Family said : Guest Report Oct 29, 2023 at 4:27 PM

Such a kind and compassionate man. He cared for our whole family and we knew him since we were very young children. Well respected and greatly admired. Rest in Peace.

Bob Molloy said : Guest Report Oct 27, 2023 at 6:52 PM

My sincere condolences to Cynthia ( more frequently referred to as Mrs. Moheban in conversation ) and the entire family. The obituary reads " He will be missed by all that were blessed to have known him." I was one of those fortunate people. May he Rest in Peace.

Cornelia LeMaitre said : Guest Report Oct 25, 2023 at 1:07 PM

My husband and I shared close to 60 years of friendship wth Mo and Cynthis as we met when both were training in surgery at the Carney Hospital in Dorchester and carried that close friendhship forward. Yes, he was larger than Life and enriched our lives tremendously with his loving friendship. Never to be forgotten. 'will miss you Mo but won't forget you... Connie

George Adams said : Guest Report Oct 25, 2023 at 7:28 AM

I knew and interact with Dr. Mo through the Merrimack Community Hospice and as a member of a small financial investment club. He was always smiling and telling interesting stories about his experience at the farm, his travels and family. He made life better for so many people and always brought a smile to my face.

Desmond and Maryke Curran said : Guest Report Oct 23, 2023 at 4:04 PM

Desmond and Maryke Curran said: October 22, 2023 Desmond and Maryke Curran send their sincerest sympathy to Robert Moheban's family on his passing. "Mo" was a remarkable person, generous to a fault, and an accomplished surgeon. He epitomized the essence of being a surgeon, diagnostically precise, always prompt and attentive, and surgically skillful. His experience was enormous and his ability with abdominal aneurysms unmatched. Always a pleasure to work with at any time of the day or night, with a broad sense of humor, Mo taught with grace and expertise. Socially generous and affable, Mo delighted in his family and in his children's and grandchildren's accomplishments. Dr. Moheban's life pivotally affected thousands of patients' lives and patients loved him. Mo was a valued friend to us both and will long be remembered. We have many happy memories of vacations together. We send our love and condolences to his family, Cynthia, Steven, Susan, Carol and Kara.

Scott Olson said : Guest Report Oct 23, 2023 at 3:55 PM

Scott Oson said: October 21, 2023 My father was Dr. Robert L. Olson, friend of Dr. Moheban. We were blessed to have met the family many times, with the annual New Years Eve Party at our home on Gillis Street (and two gatherings, at their home and another at our home with great food from the Middle East). Dr. Moheban was my mom Terry's physician. He was always so wonderful and compassionate. I've always been blessed knowing him and his wonderful wife and children in a brief but personal way. I was always richer as a person having met them. God bless you family.....Scott Olson, SoPo Maine

Richard C. Berman said : Guest Report Oct 23, 2023 at 7:28 AM

When I learned of Dr. Moheban's passing I was stunned. He was my neighbor and good friend. "Mo" was the most likeable and interesting person I have ever met. He could discuss things on any topic and loved learning how to fix things around his home. When he decided to put storm doors on, I suggested he get them and i would put them on. He insisted on personally helping throughout the whole process. One of many we did. He once told me "how much he loved his work and that he was the happiest when actually doing an operation. That doing a dozen operations in a day was no problem for him". The lives he had saved could never be counted. God bless you "Mo", may we meet again.

Carolyn R. Choate said : Guest Report Oct 22, 2023 at 11:19 PM

Dr. Mo, you will be so deeply missed and by so many. From board members, staff, and kids at the Boys & Girls Club; to favorite spots like Cedar Cafe; and innumerable patients whose life they entrusted with your hands and a bedside manner we wished every physician had. Yours, Dr. Mo, was a heart of gold. We are blessed to have known you.

Dr. Tara Levesque-Vogel said : Guest Report Oct 22, 2023 at 6:54 PM

I am writing this with a broken heart. I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. Mo was very special to me. I met him in the late 80's when I worked for him during a summer in high school. He was always very kind to me. Fast forward 20+ years, after I became a dentist, I purchased his office from another dentist, once the practice of Dr. Telage. My private office was Dr Mo's private office from years before, where I first met him. Which I always thought was so special. My employees always loved seeing Dr Mo....many times he would bring gifts especially when someone had a baby or a big life event. A few years ago when I had a simple surgery on my upper back, he came to my office and helped change my bandage to make it more comfortable to me. I would it ironic that he was caring for me while I was the practitioner. Dr. Mo always spoke so proudly of his children and grandchildren. He told me of stories at the cape, Africa, and loved to talk about Grand Cayman trips. Last time I saw him he told me he was traveling to Greece. I'm happy to hear that he made it there this August. He gave me a lot of business advice and said to never lose sight of what's important, which is the patient. Please let me know when there will be a celebration of life.

Nancy Frye aka Zahira Zuhra said : Guest Report Oct 22, 2023 at 7:47 AM

I'm very sad to read that Dr. Moheban has passed on. My deepest sympathies and condolences to the Family. I first met Dr. Moheban in 1992. I was having severe gallbladder pain and he was one of the doctors I met for surgical consult. I instantly felt very safe and comfortable with Dr. Moheban, and he did my surgery on March 19th, 1992. Forward many years to the 2000's, when I was actively teaching and performing Middle Eastern Dance, and my favorite place to perform was the Athenian Corner. One evening, during my performance, I was very happily surprised to see Dr. Moheban in the audience. It was always extra special for me to have such wonderful people to enjoy a great night of music, dancing, and happy atmosphere. Rest in Peace, Dr. Moheban. You will be missed by so many. And thank you again for bringing me peace and comfort in my time of great pain and making it all go away. May you be surrounded by music and dancing in the Heavens.

Charlene Urwin said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2023 at 2:28 PM

His obituary & ongoing tributes capture the character, charm & accomplishments of Dr. Moheban. But it’s almost impossible to capture the kindness & calm he had in reassuring patients during stressful & chaotic times. I feel so fortunate he was on-call at the hospital when I had to have emergency surgery when I was 20. I was his last patient and was worried it was too late & he was too tired and concerned about my scar. He assured me he saved the best for last & not to worry about the scar. He was right on both scores. Dr. Moheban was a smart, funny, thoughtful & attractive man—not what I expected in a surgeon back then. I lucked out that he was on-call that day more than 55 years ago. Thanks to him, always…and may he rest in peace. His life was a blessing to so many.

Peter Chaloner said : Guest Report Oct 21, 2023 at 8:07 AM

I was on the Board of HHHC and the Finance Committee for many years with Dr. Moheban. He was a great guy. Very smart, asked the right questions. Always had a nice smile. Had several meetings with him, Jolie and Marcia and learned so much. Like Jolie I am very glad I knew Dr. Moheban. May he be at peace. My condolences to his entire family.

Jolie Blauvelt said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 8:02 PM

What a wonderful obituary; they seldom do the job but this one did. Thank you. Above all, I remember his voice -- I can hear it and I can so hear him saying softly, "Remember our adventure?" His smile and his eyes, and his voice were just for you, in that moment. He was a treasure: warm, intelligent, curious, honest and generous. He was also wise. Without rose-colored glasses, he understood, recognized and was hugely grateful for his blessings. He embodied all that mattered in life. I will miss him but more, I am so glad I knew him.

Marcia Donaldson said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 3:27 PM

What a loss, but what a blessing that this beautiful man lived a long and incredibly meaningful life!! My 15 years serving with Dr. Moheban on the board of directors at Home Health & Hospice Care were a great pleasure. My deepest condolences to his wife and family. He so clearly loved you all, and was especially crazy about his grandchildren. Truly a man whose life was well lived.

Cort Mendez said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 2:34 PM

It was a true honor to have had the pleasure of knowing Dr. Mo. He was always so much more interested in hearing how others were doing as opposed to talking about his own successes, which were many! I will miss his great smile and presence!

Dyan Parker - HHHC said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 1:55 PM

I am so sad to hear of the passing of Dr. Moheban. He was so full of life, charm and charisma! You could see his smile from a mile away! Dr. Moheban was so proud of all his children and grands. May your wonderful memories ease your sadness ~ I'm sure he's in heaven entertaining the angels.

Richard & Margo(Lecius) Lawrie said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 12:01 PM

Heartfelt sympathy for the loss of a wonderful man, caring physician.. May the good memories get you through the rough patches. Take care.

Loren R Cardin said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 11:59 AM

Rest in Peace, Dr. Moheban. You took such good care of our Dad back in the 1960’s. He thought the world of you and spoke of you often. There will never be another physician quite like you.

Kamal and Neeta Masand said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 10:54 AM

so sad to hear about Dr Mo's passing. I will miss him conversation with him on wide range of topics at our Clubs meetings. Heartfelt condolences to family from us. Legacy left will be difficult to fulfil.

Mark Constantian, MD, FACS said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 10:41 AM

Dr. Mo was larger than life. As Denise Lawson has said, if you had a rupturing aneurysm, Mo was the surgeon you wanted. He was technically excellent and very rapid. When he assisted me with surgery, if he didn't think I was moving fast enough, he would start dissecting with his finger. I remember dissecting a pedicle for a complicated flap, and as we close to the important vessels, he started saying, "I beg of you, please stop." But I couldn't, because if I didn't dissect further, the flap wouldn't have moved to its destination. I knew him since 1978, and he was a good friend and truly a model of what a great community surgeon ought to be. We still visited a lunch often after we both retired. I will miss him a great deal.

Tim Sullivan said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 10:16 AM

Dr. Moheban was a good friend and colleague to my father and our family for so many years living in Nashua. He seemed to always be around when my father had extended stays in the hospital or for visits at the Hunt Community over the years. I can tell you that his visits made a real difference in my father’s life and if making a difference in people’s lives is a measure of success, Dr. Moheban had to be one of the most successful people in our lifetimes. Thank you Dr. Moheban. My prayers and thoughts are with you and family today –

Arthur Fitzmaurice said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 10:01 AM

I came to Nashua as an Internist in 1978 fresh out of training. Dr Wrobleski advised me to use Mo whenever I needed to refer to a surgeon. Mo quickly became one of my close friends and mentor. As all in the medical field in the Nashua area know he was fast and skilled in the operating room. Among the many patients he saved was my wife, Julie. Mo was the epitome of what a physician and person should strive to be. What a legacy he has left behind! I will be forever grateful for the special bond and wonderful example that he always showed me in how to be the doctor I wanted to be.

Denice Gehan Lawson said : Guest Report Oct 20, 2023 at 9:01 AM

I am so, so sorry to hear of Dr. MO’s passing. He was everything this obituary said he was and more.I was an ER nurse at St. Joseph Hospital in Nashua for years. One Sunday night around 10:30 pm, we had a patient come in who the ER doctor diagnosed with a ruptured aneurysm. Almost always fatal. We paged overhead for “any surgeon in the hospital to report to the ER.. We were never so happy to see Dr. Mo come through our doors. He paged the OR team on call….who have 30 minutes to get there. There were no surgically trained nurses in the ER that night so he looked at me and said…”this man is going to die if we don’t get him to the OR now so I guess it’s you and me..”. We took the gentleman to the OR together. Slid him on to the OR table and then poor Dr. Mo kept asking me…..”do you know what a ……..(some surgical tool) was ? How about a……?” I kept answering “no”. I had never even been in an OR! He found what he was looking for and looked me straight in the face and said”I’m opening him up now and together we are going to keep him alive till the team gets here..” I had NO idea what that would involve. We hooked him up to every monitor I knew how to operate, we got gowned and masked and gloved and Dr. Mo opened up his abdomen right then and there. He clasped his gloved hand around the aorta where the bleeding was coming from , looked at me and said quite calmly…..”this is all we need to do till the team gets here…”. I said OK……and that’s what we did!! We took turns holding pressure with a closed fist over this man’s leaking aorta! We never said a word, just kept taking turns and watching the clock. I got very teary…..truthfully I was sooo scared. At one point he looked at me with the kindest eyes and said to me…”I’m so glad you were there tonight..” That was all I needed to get through that horrendous night….and we ALL did!! The OR team finally got there and Dr. Mo did what he did best. He saved that man’s life!! And……the man and his family were so grateful that Dr. Mo and his wife were invited to their 40th wedding anniversary! He went. The next time we met up he said…….”Remember our “adventure” in the OR? Hell “yes!” “Well…..I danced at that man’s 40th wedding anniversary last Saturday night.” He hugged me and just whispered..”thank you!” He was the absolute best!! Love you Dr. Mo. I’ll see you again!

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