Mary Agnes (Seaver) Kirby

October 7, 2024
KIRBY, MA

   Mary Agnes (Seaver) Kirby, passed away on Monday, October 7, 2024 at the age of 94. Mary was born September 29, 1930 in Arlington, Massachusetts, a daughter of the late George R. and Mary J. “Molly” (Ahearn) Seaver. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her sisters, Margaret Hayes Bell and Florence Mulkern.

   She is survived by her husband Ed of Nashua, NH and her brother George R. Seaver, Jr. and his wife Nancy of Alexandria, VA.

    Mary was raised in Arlington, MA and attended Arlington public schools. Mary went on to graduate from Forsyth School of Dental Hygiene in Boston. Mary worked as a Dental Hygienist until she chose to become an Army Officer’s wife when she married 1st Lt. Edward J. Kirby of Brookline, MA on August 21, 1954. She traveled to Germany, Okinawa, and numerous stateside locations as she accompanied Ed on his 23 – year Army Career.

     In addition to her role as an Officer’s wife, she was the mother of and raised six beautiful children, Mary Beckette (Fred), Kathy Weeden (Wes), Eddie Kirby (Joy), Patty Ekins (Jim), Mike Kirby and Alison Kirby. Upon Ed’s retirement in 1974 the family settled in Nashua, NH. Mary has fourteen grandchildren and eleven great-grandchildren.

     Mary was a devout Catholic who had a strong devotion to Saint Gerard and the Blessed Mother. She enjoyed attending daily Mass. Mary loved music and dancing and had a great social life with her neighborhood group, the Gourmet group, and the Kirby Sibs.

    The family wishes to express its heartfelt appreciation to the exceptional staff at The Epsom Healthcare Center and Bayada Hospice who provided Mary with exceptional comfort and care.

     Calling hours will be held at the FARWELL FUNERAL HOME, 18 Lock Street, Nashua on Friday, October 18th from 4 to 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. Christopher Church, 62 Manchester Street, Nashua, Saturday, October 19th at 10 a.m. Interment will follow in Edgewood Cemetery. Family and friends are invited to attend. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Mary’s memory can be made to the Epsom Healthcare Center, 901 Suncook Hwy, Epsom, NH 03234. To leave an online message of condolence, please visit www.farwellfuneralservice.com

15 Comments on Mary Agnes (Seaver) Kirby

Mary Dougherty said : Guest Report Oct 29, 2024 at 10:44 AM

So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. She was a kind and gentle soul that I was privileged to cross paths with .

Melissa Emery said : Guest Report Oct 17, 2024 at 9:29 PM

Mary was such a beautiful soul. She was always so kind and encouraging. She was always transparent with her feelings and so very grateful for everyone. I was so blessed to have her and her beautiful family come into my life. I will forever thank God for placing her in my world. She will be so dearly missed.

Earl Valyou said : Guest Report Oct 14, 2024 at 8:21 PM

Mary was such a beautiful and wonderful person. Mary and Ed raised the nicest family. Rest in peace.

Missy said : Guest Report Oct 13, 2024 at 10:40 AM

Miss Mary was a wonderful sole. Her love for family and life was heartfelt through that beautiful smile of hers. Her willingness to do well and give anything a try was most certainly her strong suit. Her faith in the Lord carried throughout her presence. Miss Mary, I was blessed to have known you and your loving family, may you rest in eternal peace.❤️🕊️Missy

Lorraine Butler said : Guest Report Oct 10, 2024 at 11:50 PM

She is now resting in peace

Jackie and Dick White said : Guest Report Oct 10, 2024 at 2:26 PM

Please accept our sincere condolences. It's been along time since we've seen you all, but we still remember you all when you were at SJN. Sending our love to all your family.

Kevin W. Stone, Ed. D. said : Guest Report Oct 10, 2024 at 2:00 PM

My sympathies to Mike and his family. May happy times sustain you during this most difficult time. Kevin W. Stone, Ed. D., and family

Barbara and Michael Barry said : Guest Report Oct 10, 2024 at 6:51 AM

Sweet Mary is in the arms of our Lord. We were blessed to know Mary and your family, Patti. May wonderful memories hold you up during the coming days of grief. Such a sweet soul. God bless you all❤️💔❤️🙏🏻

Linda Brennan said : Guest Report Oct 09, 2024 at 1:31 PM

I knew Mary when I volunteered at Epsom Healthcare with Winter (therapy dog). I so admired her faith, strength, and very positive attitude. She was one of my favorites to visit. Rest peacefully, Mary. Thank you for being in my life. I will miss you.

Maureen (Hayes) Heiligmann and Wayne Heiligmann said : Guest Report Oct 09, 2024 at 10:16 AM

My Aunt Mary and Godmother was truly a beautiful woman in every way! In many ways she was like a second mother to me. From my very early memories of her on Ronald Road in Arlington, (and bringing home our soon to be Uncle Ed) to her calm, encouraging manner and joyful spirit through the years. She always remembered my birthday with a loving note and gift. Rest in Peace Aunt Mary and you will continue to be an inspiration to me. Our Love and Sympathy to the whole Kirby Family.

Joe Hayes said : Guest Report Oct 08, 2024 at 10:34 PM

EVERYONE who knew Mary loved her. She was beautiful inside and out. Her relationship with our mother (her late sister Margaret) was a special one. May God rest her soul in peace, joy,.a nd power, and comfort those she leaves behind.

Phyllis Vestyck Ekins said : Guest Report Oct 08, 2024 at 10:30 PM

Much joy was added to my life when Mary came into my life as my son's mother-in-law. As the love between them grew, it was realized Mary was once the Dental Hygienist addressing his preventive care when my son was a patient of her dentist's practice. This was a notable number of years before her daughter, Patty and Jim, met each other. Our time together, at Kirby family social events left very pleasant lingering moments to this very day. The timbre of her voice will linger, as she surely Rests-In-Peace.

Mary said : Guest Report Oct 08, 2024 at 10:07 PM

Our condolences to all of the family . Love, Matt & Mary Mulkern

Ellen and Steve Vail said : Guest Report Oct 08, 2024 at 8:20 PM

Mary was an incredible person…so full of life and a beautiful smile. We will remember her so fondly. Many wonderful years were spent with Mary and Ed as their neighbors and friends. She will be missed.

Glenn Sullivan said : Guest Report Oct 08, 2024 at 2:44 PM

Love to all the Kirbys. We will miss Mary soooo much :(

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