Darlene A. Rodier

May 14, 2019
RODIER, DARLENE A.

   Darlene A. (Deschene) Rodier, 60, of Hudson, formerly of Litchfield, NH and Lowell, MA, passed away unexpectedly at her home on Tuesday, May 14, 2019.      

    Born in Lowell on November 17, 1958, she was a daughter of the late Andre G. and Barbara Ann (Hanney) Deschene. Darlene was educated in Lowell schools and was a graduate of Keith Hall Class of 1977.     

    Darlene had been employed as a medical manufacturing associate with the Getinge Group of Merrimack, NH and previously worked at MACOM in Lowell, MA for over twenty-five years.

    A devoted mother and grandmother, Darlene loved spending time with her family; loved dancing and country music; and was an avid New England sports fan.

    Darlene was the wife of the late Curtis A. Rodier, whom she married in July of 1984 and shared 22 years together until his passing on April 22, 2007. She was also predeceased by two brothers, Gilbert F. Deschene and Kevin R. Deschene; and two sisters, Michelle Deschene and Sharon Deschene.

    Members of her family include a daughter, Ashley Rodier; a son, Matthew Rodier; two step-daughters, Nicole Orcutt and Alicia Shields; several grandchildren including Aliana R. Perez; three sisters, Karen L. Coan, Kimberly A. Thompson and her husband David, and Laurie A. Rondeau and her husband Brien, all of Lowell, MA; her Godchildren, Meghan Coan and Jake Rondeau; two aunts, Patricia Hanney and Joan Dowling and her husband John, all of Lowell, MA; also many nieces, nephews and cousins.

   Calling hours will be held at the FARWELL FUNERAL HOME, 18 Lock Street, Nashua on Monday, May 20th from 4 to 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. John XXIII Parish (St. John The Evangelist Church), 25 Library Street in Hudson, Tuesday morning at 10 o’clock. Interment will follow at Edgewood Cemetery in Nashua. Family and friends are invited to attend and are asked to gather at the church.

   Arrangements are in the care of the FARWELL FUNERAL SERVICE. (603) 882-0591. www.farwellfuneralservice.com 

13 Comments on Darlene A. Rodier

Matthew Rodier (her son) said : Guest Report Aug 25, 2023 at 3:02 AM

Hey mom I know I can't talk to you In the flesh,but want you to know I miss you more Then anything in the world,i miss watching patrioys games with you and i miss just being your son,your friend and i know i may have disappointed more times then not but to say that a day goes by that i dont think of you would be like me saying i know your not up there with dad! I love you and still today I cry thinking about how I wish I could have been there for you more,but I am sorry that I took things for granted and you may have been one of them but because of you I have learned to never take anything for granted again. You are one of the most special people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing,you were so selfless and thoughtful of everyone and always put others before yourself I will never forget you and until the day we meet mom,RIP and give DAD a hug for me and tell him let's go pats!

Gina Verbickas (Lorenzo) said : Guest Report Oct 24, 2020 at 10:11 PM

I’m so sad to hear this news. I was an old friend of Darlene’s.. the Lowell days.. working at Andover Medical when she first met the love of her life.. I helped her with hair and makeup on her wedding day.. and then sadly we lost touch. I’ll always remember her laugh and her big heart ... I know she’s at peace, reunited with so many she lost and loved so much.. even tho we hadn’t talked for way too long, she made a lasting imprint in my live and in my heart and the world lost a beautiful soul..but we’re all better for knowing her ❤️

Kimberly Thompson said : Guest Report Jun 14, 2019 at 8:09 PM

I still can’t believe your gone Darlene, I’ve been in denial since the day you left us. It all still feels so surreal, a nightmare!! As days goes by I find myself thinking & missing you every day so much!! You were just the Best sister & my best friend !! I’m so lost without you, you were always there Whenever I needed you, we’ve Had so many good years of vacations & gatherings , memories i’ll Always treasure & never forget. I’m so grateful for all the years we shared together, I have so many great memories of you , Memories i’ll Hold forever!! I’ll miss your laughter, your beautiful smile Your great sense of humor!! Theirs no one who could take your place!! You were just simply the best!! We had a bond that no one could ever replace.. I was your maid of honor, the godmother of your 1st born, I am truly proud to have been asked to be by your side!!! You were a great role model,& I’ve always look up to you, you & I are so much a like, I’m proud to say you were my sister!! Life is going to be so much harder to go on wthout you in it... I love you sooo much it hurts!! I’m going to miss you more than you could ever imagine!!! It’s a month today God took you away!! each day it’s just get so much harder There’s no good byes, we will reunite one day & Until we’re together again !! RIP My beloved beautiful sister ..❤️

Timothy Bruen said : Guest Report May 21, 2019 at 9:11 AM

To all of the family my deepest condolences on your loss and my prayers go out to you. The comfort from the holy scriptures can be a great source of help at this time. The account about our Lord Jesus who performed a resurection of his dear friend Lazarus at John chapter 11 can be a wonderful source of hope and comfort for future time. This and others like it may help with the pain that comes with losing a loved one. Once again my thoughts are with you all at this moment.

Sheryl Forkey said : Guest Report May 20, 2019 at 12:21 PM

I am very sorry for your loss. I was saddened by the news of Darlene's passing. I worked with Darlene at MA-COM. I will always remember her great laugh and smile. She always made us laugh.

Joann MacNeill said : Guest Report May 20, 2019 at 10:16 AM

The nicest person,friend, sister, mother and grandmother anyone could ask for. She will be so missed by everyone that knew her. I still can't believe it. Ashley I am so sorry for your loss. Her family loved her so much!! Kim, Karen and Laurie so sorry for you guys she was the best sister you could have asked for you were very lucky to have her. from Jo-Ann MacNeill ... love you guys

from Kelly Greenhalge said : Guest Report May 20, 2019 at 2:55 AM

To the FAMILY MEMBERS of Darlene A Deschene/Rodier, I'M TRULY SORRY 4 YOU'RE HORRIBLE LOSS, & THIS FAMILY HAS SEEN & BEEN THR SUCH HORRENDOUS PAIN & TOO MANY LOSSES, & IVE BEEN SO SAD FOR ALL OF THE FAMILY MEMBERS. JUST WANTA TAKE A MINUTE TO SARE MY TRUE condolences & SORROW FOR UR PAIN! 😔🙏GOD BLESS EVERYONE IN THIS FAMILY! YOU HAVE ALL STUCK TOGETHER, & BEEN SO STRONG. GOD BLESS ALL OF THE FAMILY MEMBERS. I TRULY WISH NOTHING BUT THE BEST FOR ALL OF YOU! 🌠JUST WANTED TO LET YOU ALL KNOW THAT EVERYBODY FEELS THE SAME, & YOU ALL R A VERY WONDERFUL SPECIAL FAMILY! SO DON'T DESERVE ALL OF THIS PAIN. JUST WANTED TO LET U ALL KNOW YOU ARE TRULY. TRULY A WONDERFULLY FAMILY, STRONG. & when PUSH COMES TO SHOVE. UR ALL THERE FOR EACH OTHER. & THAT'S HARD TO FIND? GOD BLESS YOU ALL IN THIS TIME OF NEED! YOU R ALL IN MY PRAYERS. & ALWAYS IN MY HEART. TAKES A SSTRONG FAMILY BOND TO GET THREW THE TOUGH TIMES. GOD BLESS YOU ALL & MAY SOME GOOD COME UR WAY. CUZ U ALL DEFINITELY DESERVE SOME PEACE & JUST WANTA SAY I LOVE U ALL WISH NOTHING BUT THE BEST 4 YOU ALL. My PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL! GOD BLESS LOVE ALWAYS KEL 🙏🌬🎆🌠💙🦋

Kelly Greenhalge said : Guest Report May 20, 2019 at 2:26 AM

AS I sit Here STARING AT THIS, I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE I AM ACTUALLY WRITING WHAT I'M ABOUT TO WRITE? 😔? IT JUST ISN'T REAL YET?? IT JUST STILL HASN'T SUNK IN!? Darlene WAS A WONDERFUL. SO VERY WONDERFUL BEAUTIFUL 🌷SOUL, Although SHE'S IN HEAVEN 🌫& I'M SURE SHE IS VERY, VERY PLEASER TO BE REUNITED WITH HER MOM, (aka) BABS, ALSO JUST AS BEAUTIFUL🌷AS HER DAUGHTER!⚘ & THEY cudof BEEN TWINS? 💕ALSO #2 Brothers,✌ WONDERFUL, 👱‍♂️💁‍♂️BROTHERS AT THAT,& (may I add)- AWESOMELY GORGEOUS, BOTH OF THEM, Kevin & Gilbert! Better known as Gill & Other Family Members Up In HEAVEN, THEY MUST BE REALLY PLEASED To HAVE HER! BUT SHE LEFT US😔 WAY, WAY TOO SOON. ON THIS PLACE WE CALL EARTH?🌏 & IT WAS A MUCH BETTER, 👼 BRIGHTER🎆✨🌟🌠Beautiful🌷⚘ WORLD WITH Darlen IN OUR WORLD, ALLTHO. SHE'LL BE MISSED BY SO, SO, MANY, SHE WILL NEVER EVER BE FORGOTTEN!! SHE'S HAS NO IDEA HOW MANY LIVES SHE'S TOUCHED & HOW MANY SMILES SHE'S PUT ON PEOPLES FACES? 😁NOW ALL THAT'S LEFT, R ALL THE TEARS 😥RUNIN DOWN ALL THOSE SAME, SAD, 😔LITTLE FACES,🎭 WHICH USED TO HOLD LOVE 💙& JOY, 🦋NOW, Only HOLD SUCH SAD, BUT MEMORABLE PLACES, 🏝 U MAY NOT BE HERE IN BODY?? BUT HER SOUL LIVES ON, DAILY, EVEN WHEN UR LITTLE GRANDBABIES ARE WELL OVER INTO THEIR 40s! SO JUST KNOW U'LL ALWAYS BE MISSED. 4 NOW. I JUST WANTA BLOW U A WONDERFUL GOOD LUCK,WISH, BLOWN WITH A LITTLE Kelly ALREADY MISSING U, KISS 🌬💋& 4 NOW Darlene, A Deschene, U WILL TRULY BE OMG ALWAYS MISSED! FLY HIGH, UR AN ANGEL NOW, & I'M SURE GOD TOOK U RITE IN, CUZ UR THE TYPE OF PERSON N.E.1 WUD LOVE 2 HAVE ON THEIR SIDE, & THEY'LL ALWAYS WIN, WIN. WIN! I DON'T THINK U'VE EVER, EVEN COMMITTED A BAD OR IMMORTAL SIN? LOVE U ALWAYS KEL.

Robbyn Culpon said : Guest Report May 19, 2019 at 4:38 PM

Ashley I am so sorry for your loss, I will miss her.

Brenda Samson said : Guest Report May 18, 2019 at 9:38 PM

Ashley I’m so sorry about your Mom and a Co Worker .My Deepest Sympathy goes out to you and your Daughter ,May she RIP 😭🙏

Kelly Stephens senecal said : Guest Report May 17, 2019 at 10:22 PM

I have the entire dechene family in my thoughts and prayers ans especially Ashley who has been a wonderful Daughter and always so thoughtful of her mom. I will forever miss your smile which you always had on your face even when you didnt want to im sure. I will miss our one on one talks on your moms pool deck and the many good times and laughs we shared over the years! You are reunited with the love of your life and the rest of your loved ones you have missed .so continue to watch over your loved oned still here i love you RIP Darlene💗💔💓

Lisa said : Guest Report May 17, 2019 at 4:51 PM

I’m am sincerely sorry for the loss of your dear sister, mother, and grandmother!

Kim schaefer said : Guest Report May 17, 2019 at 12:38 PM

Ashley I’m so sorry for your families loss. Your mom is a wonderful women. Kind and has a big heart ❤️

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