Mary A. Grallo

February 11, 2022
Grallo,Mary

Mary Alice (Ghilardi) Grallo, 96, a longtime resident of Nashua, passed away Friday, February 11, 2022 peacefully in her home surrounded by her loved ones and her 15 year old “baby” daschund Chas.

She is fondly remembered as a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother and loved spending time with her family and friends. She was a full-time homemaker while raising her children.  After that, there was no stopping her! She was a top-producing “Avon Lady” who pedaled her bike throughout the neighborhood for over 15 years. She also was a monitor at Charlotte Avenue school for 25 years, reluctantly retiring at 87 years young! She was generous with both her hugs and the candy in her pockets and was lovingly known as Mrs. “G” to thousands of students. For decades, she was an active member and top fundraiser for the Nashua Senior Activity Center and was a fixture in the Annual Senior Citizens Show singing and dancing in one of her many outrageous costumes every year. She loved her aerobics, dance and yoga up until the age of 94!

She was always active and loved working in her vegetable garden and was raking and mowing her lawn well into her 90’s. And this, from a city gal!

She was born on October 13, 1925, in Boston, MA, the daughter of the late Leo and Catherine Ghilardi and was predeceased by the love of her life, Anthony Grallo, whom she was married to for 50 years. In addition to her parents and husband, she was predeceased by her sister, Emma Stewart and her brothers Leo and John Ghilardi.

Survivors include her daughters and their spouses, Sandra and Jean-Paul Lanctot, Joyce McGrath and her buddies, Paul Young and James Weltzer (Mary’s “adopted” sons) and Linda and Kirk Pomeroy. Her grandchildren include Bruce Lanctot, Paula Gathright, Bret Pomeroy, Brianna Beam as well as two great-grandchildren, Jayla Gathright and Ambrose Beam.  She had many nieces and nephews, and she was considered a second Mom by her niece Katey Barbaro and her husband Frank and her nephew Steven Ghilardi.

Mary was also blessed with a second family, Melissa and Al Martin, their daughter Ashleigh and her son Grayson and Allan Jr. and his family.

Mom’s beautiful face, her laughter and her indomitable spirit will always live on through those who were privileged to know and love her. She will always be loved from the moon and back a million times.

Visiting hours will be on Saturday, February 19, 2022, from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm at the FARWELL FUNERAL HOME, 18 Lock Street, Nashua, followed by a Celebration of Life at Courtyard by Marriott, 2200 Southwood Dr., Nashua, NH 03063. A Funeral Mass will take place on the following Wednesday, February 23, 2022, at 10:00 am at Immaculate Conception Parish, 216 E Dunstable Rd, Nashua, NH 03062. Friends and family are cordially invited to meet directly at the church. Service will be livestreamed starting at 10:00 am www.iccnashuanh.org/media-library Interment to follow at Edgewood Cemetery, 107 Amherst St, Nashua, NH 03064.

In lieu of flowers, for those planning an expression of sympathy, the family asks that donations honoring the life of Mary Grallo be made to Home Health & Hospice Care, 7 Executive Park Drive, Merrimack, NH 03054, Attention: Development or online at www. hhhc.org or to The Nashua Senior Activity Center, 70 Temple St, Nashua, NH 03060.  Arrangements are in the care of the FARWELL FUNERAL SERVICE (603) 882-0591. To send an online message of condolence, please visit www.farwellfuneralservice.com

9 Comments on Mary A. Grallo

Karen Fulginiti LeTourneau said : Guest Report Mar 22, 2022 at 9:56 AM

Decades have past since I last saw Mary, she was my godmother and my great aunt. I have many memories of visits with my cousins when I was young. My condolances to all.

Krista Provost-Tate said : Guest Report Feb 19, 2022 at 3:08 PM

I loved living next door to Mary for the past 7 years. She was generous, funny and shared so many sweet treats. She livened up the block parties every year! The neighborhood will not be the same without her. She is going to be missed greatly.

Jim Weltzer said : Guest Report Feb 19, 2022 at 2:33 PM

My deepest and heartfelt condolences to all of Mary`s family and many friends. I will miss, as I already do, my very special friend and confidant. You will be close to my heart throughout eternity.

Susan Keating said : Guest Report Feb 19, 2022 at 11:33 AM

You always had a special place in your heart for my son, Brandon. We had some great times together in Gloucester and Christmas shopping at the Pheasant Lane Mall. I cannot begin to remember how many times we visited the Nashua Public Library and museums together. You will be sorely missed in the neighborhood. I'm so happy that you're reunited with your love, Tony.

Mr and Mrs Leo P Ghilardi II said : Guest Report Feb 18, 2022 at 11:27 AM

Kathleen and l are deeply saddened by the loss of my Dear Aunt Mary for the sake of her immediate family and friends. We will always remember her in our daily prayers. To our relatives we pray for comfort. Please know now that Aunt Mary prays for you now. We miss you all very much.

Patty Ledoux said : Guest Report Feb 17, 2022 at 2:59 PM

Love sweet Mary!

Linda Rittenberg said : Guest Report Feb 15, 2022 at 10:18 PM

My family and I will never forget you! You were always so kind and generous to us. Love, Jay, Linda and kids

Al Martin said : Guest Report Feb 15, 2022 at 8:20 PM

No Lie Mother Mary, disliked you as a neighborhood kid (punk) but once I GREW UP, you because a second mother to me. Much love to you and Tony! You shall ALWAYS be remembered and revered. Your secret (not so) Hunny, AL

Melissa Martin said : Guest Report Feb 15, 2022 at 7:57 PM

Words camnot express what you meant to me. You were a shining star and lovely woman. You will be missed by many. Love, Melissa

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