Mary F. (Farkas) Kalil

July 26, 2025
KALIL, MARY obit & bookmarks photo

Mary F. (Farkas) Kalil, 94, of Nashua, NH, wife of Robert J. Kalil, passed away peacefully Saturday morning, July 26, 2025 at the Community Hospice House in Merrimack, NH.

Mary was born in Boston, Massachusetts on October 26, 1930, daughter of the late John Welch and Lillian (Butler) Welch. Mary grew up in Orient Heights, Massachusetts and was educated in the Catholic School Systems, graduating from Fitton High School in East Boston, MA. 

In addition to raising her family, Mary was employed by New England Telephone/NYNEX Verizon, where she held a variety of positions from Operator to Design/Drafting Administration during her 20+ years of employment, retiring in 1991.

In her leisure time, Mary enjoyed spending time here in NH, and at her MD Beach home and attending shows and plays in Boston and NY, “Girls” Shopping trips, and the occasional Casino visit. Mary also enjoyed family gatherings, playing cards, dining out, excursions with her Grandchildren and vacations, both US and International.

Members of her family include(d): her Husband, Robert Kalil; and her late Husband Joseph Farkas; Son, Stephen Farkas and his wife Lynn (Schultz) of Nashua, N.H.; Daughters Nancy (Farkas) Mills of Maryville, IL. and her Husband Jim (Deceased); Patricia (Farkas) Raboin of Hope Valley, RI. and her husband Richard; Step-Daughter Karen (Kalil) Connelly of Norwood, MA. and her husband Paul; and Cheryl (Kalil) Cerullo of Medford, MA. and her husband Robert. Mary also had 16 Grandchildren and 7 Great Grandchildren. In addition, Mary has a sister, Patricia (Welch) Daly of Weymouth, MA and her husband George (deceased); and a brother, Thomas Welch and his wife Irene (Marino) (both deceased); also nieces and nephews.

Mary was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She will be missed by all who knew her.

Calling hours will be held at the FARWELL FUNERAL HOME, 18 Lock Street, Nashua, NH on Monday, August 4th from 4 to 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in the Parish of the Resurrection, 449 Broad Street, Nashua, NH, Tuesday morning, August 5th at 11 a.m. Family and friends are invited to attend. To leave an online message of condolence, please visit www.farwellfuneralservice.com. 

6 Comments on Mary F. (Farkas) Kalil

Lisa Karkhanis said : Guest Report Aug 04, 2025 at 6:00 AM

Mary was an incredible woman who carried herself like a true lady who always had a witty remark and a twinkle in her eyes. I remember very fondly the shopping excursion we had in downtown Boston when she shared so many interesting stories of her life there. She never stopped asking me when I was going to buy an exquisite pair of shoes that we saw that day (I should buy them!). However, what I most remember is the great love of her family and Bob. It showed in her face whenever she looked their way…

Lynn Farkas said : Guest Report Jul 31, 2025 at 11:25 AM

Mary - my beautiful, caring funny, sarcastic witty mother in law of 38 years, happiest when making people laugh anywhere she was whether she knew them or not. This wonderful trait was inherited by her son my husband Steve and daughters Patty and Nancy and further passed on to the army of children, grand children and great grandchildren the family of which I have benefitted from immensely and love so dearly. Mary will be sorely missed

Margaret B. Harrison said : Guest Report Jul 30, 2025 at 9:28 AM

Margo Harrison: What a great picture of Mary. It shows her joy in life; her happiness she gave to her family and friends and that special twinkle in her eye. Love, Margo

Cheryl said : Guest Report Jul 29, 2025 at 12:47 PM

Mary was one of a kind , always being silly and doing crazy things and always making us laugh with her sense of humor .!! She was kind , loving and an amazing wife to my dad . I will miss her smile, and unconditional caring and always being there for Karen and me when we would get together especially when we were young on summer vacations with dad and Mary . You will be sadly missed and I am happy for all the memories we had with her and dad over the years We love you ❤️🙏🏻.

Nicole Cassidy said : Guest Report Jul 29, 2025 at 9:27 AM

Grandma was a beautiful, strong, witty woman and fiercely protected her family. She lived an amazing life, one we all can only hope for. We all love her and will miss her greatly.

Robert Kalil said : Guest Report Jul 29, 2025 at 8:51 AM

She was the love of my life - my wife, my best friend and my confidant for 50 years. I will miss her greatly.

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