Robert A. “Bob” Stawasz

July 11, 2023
STAWASZ, ROBERT photo

   “Bob” Robert Allan Stawasz, 74, of Nashua, is now telling jokes in heaven after passing away unexpectedly from a heart attack on Tuesday morning, July 11, 2023 at Lowell General Hospital in Lowell, MA.
Bob was a devoted and loving husband, father, and Grampy. He was a voracious reader, collector of Nashua historical memorabilia, and lover of good wine. He enjoyed going to estate sales with his wife Arlette, air shows, vintage car shows, taking pictures of wildlife, gardening, drawing, and puns.

A lifelong resident of this city, Bob was born in Nashua on December 29, 1948, a son of the late Frank P. and Geraldine C. (Hartigan) Stawasz. Educated in local schools, Bob was a graduate of Nashua High School Class of 1967. He attended St. Anselm’s College and earned a Bachelor’s degree from Plymouth State College in 1973.


Bob began his career with the New Hampshire Liquor Commission in 1974. He worked at Nashua liquor stores at Railroad Square, Coliseum Avenue, Daniel Webster Highway South and Amherst St for many years, including as a manager, until his retirement. His favorite years were working for Liquor Law Enforcement.

       Members of his family include his wife of 49 years, Arlette (Brideau) Stawasz, whom he married on July 13, 1974. They had obvious love for each other. He leaves behind a treasured family: his three daughters, Lydia Soleil and her husband, David of Atlanta, GA, Emily Soleil and her husband Kevin of Lowell, MA and Alice Stawasz of Manchester; four grandchildren, Ocean, Meadow, Canyon and River, and Dee Wolfson held a special place in his heart. He also leaves behind his three siblings and their spouses: Thomas P. and Maryann Stawasz of Nashua, Patricia L. and Mark Radwan of Milford and Christopher H. and Lara Stawasz of Hollis; nephews and a niece: Benjamin, Jack, Anna and Matthew. He also had treasured in-law family: Paulette and David Denenberg, Louise and Robert Melanson, and nephews and nieces: Marc, Michelle, Daniel, Jonathan, Erick, Eric, Julie, Kevin and Brian. He will also be missed by many beloved friends and acquaintances. 

      There will be a celebration of life on Sunday, July 23rd, 2-4pm at ALPINE GROVE BANQUET HALL – ANNEX, 19 South Depot Road, Route 111-A, Hollis, NH. Please visit www.farwellfuneralservice.com where you can also leave an online message of condolence or a pun. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Gateways Community Services, ​​https://tinyurl.com/GatewaysDonation. Arrangements are in the care of the Farwell Funeral Service, 18 Lock Street, Nashua.

51 Comments on Robert A. “Bob” Stawasz

Bob Bowman said : Guest Report Jul 23, 2023 at 8:06 PM

So sorry to hear of Bob passing. Remember him in the old hood off of Lake St. My condolences.

Deen Family said : Guest Report Jul 23, 2023 at 1:02 PM

Our deepest sympathies to you Arlette and the entire family. Bob was a wonderful person and we will miss him. May He Rest In Peace.

Steve and Wendy Radwan said : Guest Report Jul 23, 2023 at 8:00 AM

So sorry to hear of Bobs passing ,our hearts go out to you all for your loss -please know you are in our prayers - R.I.P. Bob

Rosa Barrieau said : Guest Report Jul 22, 2023 at 8:45 AM

La Famille Barrieau partage votre chagrin et offre ses plus sincères condoléances à toute la famille d'Arlette et de Bob. Nous faisons tous une grande perte et son charmant sourire sera ineffaçable. Bon courage et avec nos pensées et prières.

Maddy Mullin said : Guest Report Jul 22, 2023 at 6:36 AM

Sorry for your loss. A great man. All my love to you all. Peaches.

William E Belecz said : Guest Report Jul 21, 2023 at 9:10 AM

So sorry to hear this. Please accept my condolences . - Bill

Sandra Fay said : Guest Report Jul 20, 2023 at 3:52 PM

So sorry for your loss. His daughter Emily was raised to be a caring person. Keeping you all in my prayers during this time. I'm sure he will be missed by all!

Karen Hunter said : Guest Report Jul 20, 2023 at 2:39 PM

Arlette, I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. I and others at the Craftworker's Guild are thinking of you and your family at his time.

Cindy and David Fletcher said : Guest Report Jul 19, 2023 at 9:42 PM

So saddened to hear of Bob’s passing. Our condolences go out to you Arlette girls and family. He will be so missed in the neighborhood. May your fondest Memories last forever.

Kristen & Andy Silva, 33 Jennifer Dr. said : Guest Report Jul 19, 2023 at 8:44 PM

We are so sorry for your loss. Bob will greatly be missed in the neighborhood. Deepest condolences to the family.

David Perault & Family said : Guest Report Jul 19, 2023 at 7:11 PM

Our deepest sympathy on Bob's passing. May he rest in eternal peace and all wonderful memories help to comfort those who beloved him.

Andrea May said : Guest Report Jul 19, 2023 at 4:33 PM

So sorry for your loss. I am sure he was an amazing person. He had to be to raise someone as special as, his daughter, Emily. What an amazing role model- he and your mother are for staying married so long. And telling Jokes in Heaven, sounds like he had a great sense of humor, like my dad. Who is probably going to meet him up there- he is constructing things, bridges etc. So, I hope they get to meet. Prayers. And if you need anything, just ask. Do not hesitate. I am here for you.

Norman & Francine Gosselin said : Guest Report Jul 19, 2023 at 9:23 AM

Sincere condolences to you Arlette and your family. May peace be with you Bob.

Maureen Bourque & Brian Mann said : Guest Report Jul 18, 2023 at 8:27 PM

Arlette and Family, Will miss seeing Bob strolling through the neighborhood with his grandchildren, stopping to share a story or his jokes. His smile will be missed. Brian and Maureen

Diane Gendron said : Guest Report Jul 18, 2023 at 6:13 PM

My sincere condolences to Bob's family. We lived across the street from the Stawasz family and have such fond memories and remember Bob as a kind and sweet person. So sadden for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with all your family, La famille Gendron

Armand Haché said : Guest Report Jul 18, 2023 at 5:47 AM

Toutes nos sincères condoléances Arlette et famille. Ton cousin Armand et conjointe Bernise!

Phil Grandmaison said : Guest Report Jul 18, 2023 at 2:43 AM

Deepest sympathies to Arlette, Tom, Chris and entire Stawasz family on Bob’s passing. He was part of a great Nashua family.

Patrick & Susan Lessard said : Guest Report Jul 17, 2023 at 5:59 PM

Arlette& family Our deepest sympathy to you and family. I have to agree with all who wrote how he was so jovial and funny with all his jokes etc. We were on the track team together at Nashua High for those four years there and also school classes so I knew him well. I did see him often when I delivered to the stores he worked at, and as usual he was always chipper. My wife Susan also sends her condolence as she worked with him also. Our sincere sympathy to you.

Mark Constantian, MD said : Guest Report Jul 17, 2023 at 8:11 AM

I have known Bob since about 1980 when Arlette was so sick. He was perhaps the most loyal and steadfastness and encouraging husband I ever met. He was always there and was a great help even in supporting me as I tried to get her well. What an unusual man. I will always remember him with great respect and affection. My wife Charlotte and I send our very deepest condolences.

Margo Smith said : Guest Report Jul 17, 2023 at 4:45 AM

Cuz. Fucken old hippie. Always the same words to my cousin Bob. Forever remembered

Liz Newman, Basalt, CO said : Guest Report Jul 16, 2023 at 12:36 PM

Dear Arlette and girls- It was so much fun growing up with Bob and his siblings! I will never forget the times we Varneys spent with them (first time we saw ‘Frankenstein’!) — you can just imagine what it was like! I also appreciated being in High School together, where Bob was so popular! He was always so happy to see me and made me feel so welcome when I came back over all these years. He holds a special place in my heart (corny or not!) Sending you all love 💗 Liz

Richard Racicot said : Guest Report Jul 16, 2023 at 8:47 AM

I was Bob's boss for a short while when he worked at the Liquor Store on High Street. He was a good worker and was always full of stories. There was never a doubt about how much he loved his family and how he took pride in them. I am very sorry for your loss and for the loss that all who knew him will feel. Those of us who knew him will never forget him.

Joyce Drown said : Guest Report Jul 15, 2023 at 7:54 AM

A wonderful neighbor for 40 years!!! Very kind caring man. You will be missed by all!! So sorry for your loss!!!

Michael Spylios said : Guest Report Jul 15, 2023 at 6:37 AM

My sincerest condolences to Arlette and family. To say I was shocked to hear of Bob's passing would be an understatement. We spoke for sometime last week. He seemed his usual self, jovial and in good spirits. I will miss our conversations regarding family, health and general ongoings in our lives. Bob's been a wonderful neighbor whose pride, joy and love for his family was the forefront of his existence. He will be missed.

love.j@comcast.net said : Guest Report Jul 15, 2023 at 4:35 AM

Dear Arlette and family, I am saddened by the news of Bobs passing. I send you all love. Let the memories be told to keep your hearts full.

Ruth Broderick said : Guest Report Jul 15, 2023 at 3:12 AM

Arlette, My sincere sympathies to you and your family. Thoughts and prayers from my family to yours.

Peter Vatne said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 10:30 PM

Arlette, so sorry to hear about Bob. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

A. Richard (Dick) Hanlon said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 9:08 PM

My sincere sympathy and deep condolences to the entire Stawasz Family. I attended Nashua High on Elm Street with Bob; we were in most of the same classes, and we both graduated in 1967. Boy how time flies! May all of the happy memories that you had with Bob over the years help to bring a smile to your face(s) and help ease the pain you're currently feeling. R.I.P., Bob.

Cecile Arsenault said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 8:08 PM

Bob was a great person and as a couple you were an inspiration to us! We enjoyed our time with you guys so much and came out so blessed to know you both. His sense of humour and yours were exceptional. Even if sometimes your vocabulary was up and above our understanding. We still had a good laugh. Bon courage ma chère, ainsi que ta belle famille. Ta cousine Cécile xox

Andrea VonDette-Shannon said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 7:28 PM

To Arlette and family, I am so sorry to hear about Bob passing away! He was a wonderful caring man with a wonderful wife and family! May you all find peace and fabulous memories to help you through your loss! Andrea VonDette-Shannon

Jennifer Cote said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 12:02 PM

Arlette, my condolences to you and your family. I only met Bob a couple times when he was helping you bring the looms to the makerspace, he seemed like such a wonderful person. Love, Jenn

Cheryl Appelstein said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 10:19 AM

We loved when he would come into Maynard & Lesieur and “ talk shop” with my dad, Roland. They would reminisce about old Nashua and the changes they’d seen. It was so enjoyable to see them together. He was always so kind and warm. He will be greatly missed .

Alana Lewis said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 10:08 AM

So sorry to hear of Bob’s passing, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God hold you in his arms and help you through the days ahead. My love to you all, Alana

Richard & Margo(Lecius) Lawrie said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 9:58 AM

So very sorry to learn of Bobby's passing. A wonderful man, grew up together at St Stan's. He will be missed & remembered, Take care God Bless

Marielle et Yvon Brideau said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 9:17 AM

Yvon se joint à moi pour t’offrir ainsi qu’à toute ta famille nos sincères condoléances et beaucoup de courage afin de traverser cette lourde épreuve

Jean-Marie Brideau said : Guest Report Jul 14, 2023 at 8:26 AM

Je ne le connaissais pas beaucoup. Bob semblait être un boute-en-train qui semait la joie et le rire autour de lui. Son absence sera sans doute très lourde pour ses proches. Toutes mes condoléances Arlette.

Monique Charron said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 8:34 PM

Chere Arlette, nos plus sinceres condoleances a toi, tes 3 belles filles, ainsi qu'a toute votre famille. Thinking of you all and sending love and hugs.....la famille a Benoit et Noella Charron, Jean-Claude, Daniel, Renald et Monique xox

Kathleen Olden said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 8:06 PM

Mom, Emily, Lydia, and Alice you are in my heart, thoughts, and prayers. You are all wonderful, strong women and while I know you will all continue your journeys with light and laughter, I know you will think of Dad often. My Dad Stawasz. I have been Blessed to not only have an amazing family by blood in my life but also family by choice. The Stawasz family adopted me into their lives during my middle school years and contributed significantly to who I am today. Dad Stawasz was an incredible man. He loved freely and never had too many daughters to love and dote on. I am grateful for the love, laughter, and wisdom He shared with me. Rest in peace and laughter, Dad. The world is a better place because of all you brought to it. I love you ❤️

Vicki Graw said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 7:59 PM

Many condolences to you and the family. Bob was a wonderful one of a kind husband that gave so much to so many. He will be very much missed!

Mélita Basque said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 7:50 PM

Mes sincères condoléances en ce moment de grand recueillement.

Jacinthe Basque said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 7:35 PM

Mes sincères condoléances à la famille!

Marcia , Sara, and family. said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 7:22 PM

We’re so very sorry for the loss of Bob. He was a very vibrant and kind man. Sending love your way.

Kenneth Renoux said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 7:17 PM

Chris.. so sorry for your loss

David Deacon said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 7:14 PM

We are so sorry for your loss, please accept our deepest condolences.

Julie Green said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 7:01 PM

What a dear, thoughtful man. I can only imagine the joy he brought to Arlette, his children and grandchildren. Sending my condolences,

John Tastula said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 6:57 PM

Deepest condolences

Sue Smith and family said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 6:42 PM

Please accept my Deepest Condolences for the loss of your loved one, cousin Bobby. Keeping you all in my prayers and thoughts. Always loved hearing Bob’s stories of Nashua and looking at hundreds of photos. Rest in Peace.

Sue Smith and family said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 6:42 PM

Please accept my Deepest Condolences for the loss of your loved one, cousin Bobby. Keeping you all in my prayers and thoughts. Always loved hearing Bob’s stories of Nashua and looking at hundreds of photos. Rest in Peace.

Louise Basque elhatton et famille said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 6:39 PM

Nos sincères condoléances Arlette et famille.

Peter Bouchard said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 5:30 PM

My most sincere condolences to Bob's family. He was such a calm individual, bringing peace to all who met him. May he rest peacefully.

Angela Shennette said : Guest Report Jul 13, 2023 at 5:18 PM

Lydia, thinking of you and your family and wishing you all moments of peace and comfort as you celebrate the life of your dad. I’ll keep your family in my prayers. With love, Angela

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