THADDEUS “TAD” W. BARBOUR

June 12, 2016
Barbour, Thaddeus W.2

    Thaddeus William Barbour Sr., 39, of Lebanon, Maine, passed away unexpectedly Sunday, June 12, 2016 at Southern New Hampshire Medical Center in Nashua.

     “Tad” was born in Peterborough, NH in the middle of a snow storm on May 9, 1977, a son of Mary F. Marcum and the late Thomas H. Barbour Sr. During his early years, Tad made his home in North Berwick, ME and was a graduate of Noble High School Class of 1995. While attending high school, Tad was a member of the wrestling team and won many awards.

    He has been employed in the building construction industry and was also a homemaker to his two sons.

    In addition to his father, Tad was predeceased by his maternal grandparents, Catherine M. and Benjamin Marcum Jr; three uncles, John P. Marcum, Daniel P. Marcum and Benjamin Marcum III; and paternal grandfather, William A. Barbour.

    Members of his family include his mother, Mary F. Marcum and her husband

Edward Hawkins of Lebanon, ME; his wife, Dawn Estes and their sons, Thaddeus W. Barbour Jr. and Kaleb A. Barbour all of Lebanon, ME; a brother, Thomas H. Barbour Jr. and his wife Kristen and their children Randy, Alisha and Paige of Lebanon, ME; his paternal grandmother, Charlotte Barbour of Mims, FL; his aunts and uncles, Sally (Schofield) Flesher, William and Linda Barbour, Debbie and Dennis Baumgartner, Russell and Joan Marcum, Alan and Elaine Marcum (Godparents), Joseph and Linda Marcum, Steven and Melissa Marcum,  Catherine R. Marcum and Arlene Farr, Donna and Robert Verville and Diane Marcum. Also many cousins.                                             

     Calling hours will be held at the FARWELL FUNERAL HOME, 18 Lock Street, Nashua, NH on Wednesday, June 22nd from 5 to 8 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. Joseph The Worker Church, 777 West Hollis Street, Nashua, Thursday, June 23rd at 10 a.m. Family and friends are invited to attend. Tad was an organ donor and his family encourages everyone to consider organ donation. The family has requested that in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. Arrangements are in the care of the FARWELL FUNERAL SERVICE. (603) 882-0591. www.farwellfuneralservice.com

18 Comments on THADDEUS “TAD” W. BARBOUR

Tabitha Estes said : Guest Report Jun 11, 2017 at 7:22 PM

A year may have gone by,but not forgotten about.

KC said : Guest Report Jun 08, 2017 at 8:18 PM

It's been a year since the world was made a better place. Good Riddance to bad trash

Cathy Fitzgerald said : Guest Report Jul 19, 2016 at 7:00 AM

Mary , I'm sincerely sorry to read about the passing of your son, Tad. Sending my heartfelt condolences to you.

John Atwood said : Guest Report Jun 23, 2016 at 9:28 AM

Mary, Again I am so sorry for your loss and I wish I could have done more. My prayers are with you and all of your family. R.I.P Tad. If you ever need anything please do not hesitate to call. I am very grateful I was able to help him a little and spend those last few days with him. Much love, John Atwood

Tabitha Estes said : Guest Report Jun 23, 2016 at 7:04 AM

Mary,kids,so sorry RIP In life,you will realize there is a role for everyone you meet.Some will test you,and some will teach you.But the ones who are truly important are the ones who bring out the best in you.Tad was one of those rare and amazing people who will be remembered and missed peace be with you

Kathy Paradis said : Guest Report Jun 17, 2016 at 9:56 PM

Dear Mary - I saw you at my brother, John's, service and never, in a million years, thought that you'd be, in a few months, going to your own son's funeral. My heart aches for you. May you be surrounded by peace and love in the days ahead. Also, sincere condolences to Tommy. We (Bill and I) coached both Tad and Tom, in Little League. They were both spirited and talented athletes. So very sorry for your loss, my friend.

Deb and Dennis Baumgartner and family said : Guest Report Jun 17, 2016 at 7:45 PM

To your family We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Tad such a handsome young man. He will join his Dad in the afterlife and God bless him and the family that will miss him so much. Our prayers go out to you. Keep your wonderful memories for ever they will help you through this. Love to all.

Katelyn said : Guest Report Jun 17, 2016 at 12:18 PM

So sorry to see this he worked with my fiance teet for years may he rip now and prayers to his boys and wife

Kim Doucette said : Guest Report Jun 17, 2016 at 8:37 AM

Mary, Tommy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Brad & Misty said : Guest Report Jun 17, 2016 at 7:58 AM

Our condolences Dawn, TJ & Kaleb, and to all of Tad's family for your loss. May time grant peace in your hearts!

Holly (Cassineri) Vachon said : Guest Report Jun 16, 2016 at 10:30 PM

Dawn and boys, words cannot express how very sorry I am for your loss! 💜 xoxo

Jill Botelho said : Guest Report Jun 16, 2016 at 10:12 PM

Its never goodbye...its until I see you again my friend. Im so sorry i missed your service. Fly high brother. RIP

Christopher Rogan said : Guest Report Jun 16, 2016 at 10:01 PM

Mary,so sorry to hear about your loss such a tragedy.Mary &Ed,Tommy you are in our prayers during this inconsolable time.Love Chris & Re Rogan

Natalie McNally said : Guest Report Jun 16, 2016 at 6:04 PM

I am shocked and so sorry my friend ..May you rest easy and fly high! My condolences to the whole family.

Cindy O said : Guest Report Jun 16, 2016 at 5:52 PM

Mary and Ed, I'm sincerely sorry to read about the passing of your son, Tad. Sending my heartfelt condolences to both of you.

DICKIE GLENNON said : Guest Report Jun 16, 2016 at 4:06 PM

I'm sorry to hear , fly high my friend I'll see you soon... you're a good man

Norma Moreau said : Guest Report Jun 16, 2016 at 6:45 AM

R.I.P although I did not know you, I know the Marcums. They are a beautiful family. My condoences to you all. Norma Moreau

Donna Verville said : Guest Report Jun 14, 2016 at 11:43 PM

I'm glad I got the chance to spend some time with you in the last few months. You were wonderful young man with a heart of gold. I'm going to miss you & our conversations. Rest in peace Tad.

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