Thomas M. O’Brien

January 26, 2025
BOSTON

Thomas Michael O’Brien was born July 6, 1958, in Lynn, MA. He was called home by our Lord on January 26, 2025, surrounded by love at Community Hospice House in Merrimack after a courageous battle with metastatic colon cancer.

Tom lived in Billerica and Tewksbury, MA, and moved to Nashua, NH in 1994.  Tom graduated from Billerica Memorial High in 1976 and attended Middlesex Community College.

Tom loved working as a Composite Technician at BAE Systems, Merrimack, NH, where he received many special awards.

Tom enjoyed travelling to Vegas, Hawaii, Northeast Kingdom, Vermont, Star Island and Nashville.  He loved rock music, horror movies, fast cars, hiking, Boston Bruins, UFC, grooming horses and training dogs.  He loved spending time at Greeley Park and Bensons.

Tom was dedicated to animal rescue and advocacy, especially for Rottweilers and bully breeds. He volunteered for Paisley’s Place, a non-profit that saves equines from slaughter.  He LOVED family time watching football, loved to attend Patriots Superbowl Parades, games and practices during TB12 glory days!

Tom taught Kung-Fu and women’s self-defense courses at Michael Macaris Kung- Fu Academy in Billerica, MA for many years.  He also competed in Martial Arts as a 2nd degree black belt.

Recently baptized, Tom was a communicant of Immaculate Conception Church.

Tom was predeceased by his loving father, Allen Thain.  Survivors include his longtime “lobster” and soulmate, Denise Muccioli; his mother Patricia Thain (DeCecca), sisters: Julie Ramalho and husband Arthur Ramalho, Jr., Tracey Greenwood and husband Joseph Greenwood, Rhonda Thain-Sweet and boyfriend William Paskiewicz, brother Corey Thain and wife Jessica Thain, dear friends James Lavoie, Laurie Lavoie, Diane Muccioli, Paula Ledoux, cousins Rick Jones and Kim Tobey, many nieces and nephews and “his” beloved dog, Luna.

In lieu of flowers, donations appreciated: Paisley’s Place and the Home of the Unadoptables, 148 Pulpit Road, Bedford, NH, 03110.  PayPal: @unadoptables

Calling hours will be held at the FARWELL FUNERAL HOME, 18 Lock Street, Nashua, on Sunday afternoon, February 2nd from 3 to 5 p.m. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, February 3rd at 10 a.m. in Immaculate Conception Church, 216 East Dunstable Road, followed by burial at Woodlawn Cemetery, all in Nashua. To leave an online message of condolence, please visit www.farwellfuneralservice.com

6 Comments on Thomas M. O’Brien

Rob Benson said : Guest Report Jan 28, 2025 at 8:15 AM

It was the laugh. He always sought the laugh. No matter what shape he was in, what he was enduring or what dark clouds were on the horizon, his sense of humor (mixed with mind-boggling degrees of toughness) helped carry him through. It was my honor to work with him for years and share his eclectic musical tastes and love for dry offbeat humor. Indeed we likely corrupted each other to no small degree. There wasn't a single person at work who thought ill of Tom, and with good reason. Always polite and soft-spoken, he also carried himself with quiet dignity (which he'd likely refute, which pretty much proved my point). I and others will always carry the great memories of our time together, though I will still miss him.

Molly Cottle said : Guest Report Jan 27, 2025 at 10:30 PM

Tom was one of the kindest and most generous souls I have ever met. The mules loved him the first time they met him, which isn't the norm for this shy herd! They recognized his beautiful light. Tom was always willing to help us out, no matter what he was doing or what the needed task was. He will be greatly missed!

Rick Jones said : Guest Report Jan 27, 2025 at 7:53 PM

Tom, I don’t know what to say… Rick

Jim Lavoie said : Guest Report Jan 27, 2025 at 7:09 PM

Tom may you find the Peace and Joy you have always shared with everyone you met. You were the kindest and most caring person I ever met. Jesus must have needed another angel. After you get past the Rainbow Bridge wait for us at the Gates of Heaven. Please pray for us and whisper to Jesus to prepare us a place.

Rich and Karen DeCoste said : Guest Report Jan 27, 2025 at 6:59 PM

Our condolences. Our thought and prayers are with you. RIP Tom

Denise Muccioli said : Guest Report Jan 27, 2025 at 6:50 PM

I will never forget you, my soulmate. Thank you for putting up with my crazy. I hope you're at peace and see all our animals at the Bridge a nd all our loved ones. Save me a good seat.

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