Thomas O. Pelkey, Jr.

October 31, 2024
PELKEY, TOM photo

   Thomas O. Pelkey, Jr., 62, of Nashua, husband of Sandra E. (Goulet) Pelkey, passed away Thursday afternoon, October 31, 2024 after a brief illness.           

   A resident of Nashua for many years, Tom was born in Albany, New York on February 12, 1962 a son of Thomas O. Pelkey and the late Barbara (Gagnon) Pelkey. During his youth, Tom and his family resided all around the world, in places such as Norway and Japan during his father’s work with the US Navy. He later made his home in Virginia and Hudson, NH before moving to Nashua. Nashua is where Tom met and later married his wife, Sandy, on June 23rd 1990.

    Tom has been employed as a masonry foreman with Carrigilio Construction for over 30 years. For many years he would also do residential masonry jobs on the weekends with the help of his sons, friends, and many coworkers.

     In his spare time, he enjoyed riding and wrenching on his motorcycles and spending time with his family and friends. He loved going for long peaceful rides with friends and family to visit beautiful places and people.

   Tom was known to be a very generous and caring man. He was always willing to go out of his way to help his friends, old or new.

   Members of his family include his wife Sandy, whom he shared 36 years with; his sons, Alexander Pelkey, and Mitchell Pelkey and his wife Leah Pelkey; his father and step-mother, Thomas and Beverly Pelkey; a brother, Gregory Pelkey; a sister, Cheryl Fisher; his brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Anthony and Susan (Goulet) Joyce and Alan and Joyce (Varney) Goulet; his nieces, Cassandra (Joyce) Elliott and her husband Kevin, Aly Goulet and Olivia Goulet. As well as several aunts uncles and cousins. Tom is pre-deceased by his mother Barbara (Gagnon) Pelkey and nephew Ryan Joyce.

    Calling hours will be held at the FARWELL FUNERAL HOME, 18 Lock Street, Nashua on Friday, November 8th from 4 to 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. Christopher Church, 62 Manchester Street, Nashua, Saturday, November 9th at 10 a.m.  Friends are invited to attend. To leave an online message of condolence, please visit www.farwellfuneralservice.com Donations can be made, in Tom’s name, to St Jude’s children’s research hospital.  

14 Comments on Thomas O. Pelkey, Jr.

Jackie Jaynes said : Guest Report Nov 09, 2024 at 11:21 AM

To the family - I am so sorry for your loss! I have nothing but fond memories and kind words for Tom. He was a good friend to have a great guy to know and a father who deeply loved his friends and family. He always spoke so proudly of his boys. There was nothing about Tom that you couldn't like. Just an amazing guy. He will be greatly missed!

Janet and Mark Scott said : Guest Report Nov 08, 2024 at 12:16 PM

We were very sad to hear of Tom's passing and our hearts go out to the entire family. We will always remember our time in Nashua on Paige Avenue where we met and spent time with Tom shortly after he and Sandy started dating. Rest In Peace.

Heidi and Jim O'Reilly said : Guest Report Nov 07, 2024 at 10:50 PM

Amazing guy! What a family of love and commitment! We had spectacular moments together! We wished we shared more time! Our thoughts and respect to all of his loved ones. Rest in peace Tom. We believe in your families strength, to be proud of the father, husband, friend, coworker and companion...you were naturally YOU! Rest, Rest in PEACE 🙏

Mike Quirion said : Guest Report Nov 06, 2024 at 1:18 PM

May Tom Rest In Peace!!!!! I have known Tom for some 40 years!!! Way to young to leave us.. Condolences from myself and everyone at Hudson Quarry...

Kevin P Kennedy said : Guest Report Nov 05, 2024 at 4:08 PM

From the first time met we were friends. Until we meet again in that rally in the sky, map out the best routes in the clouds and bring my Jesus shoes to ride. Love you Bud.💔

Vee and Ron said : Guest Report Nov 04, 2024 at 7:38 PM

Tom always helped when asked. He was a stand you guy that you could disagree with and all would be fine. I loved that he stood his ground. He will be missed and remembered as a kind hearted strong man. Condolences to Sandy and family.

Marie and Peter Petrigno said : Guest Report Nov 04, 2024 at 2:34 PM

Our hearts are full of sorrow at Tom’s passing. He was a good friend and so kind to anyone in need. Tom was from the old school and believed that if you took on a job you did it right and to the best of your ability. Everyone trusted Tom and knew his word was gold. His love for Sandy and his boys was unwavering. May our Lord embrace him in heavenly glory and give comfort to Sandy, the family and all who loved him.

Peter Johnston said : Guest Report Nov 03, 2024 at 4:15 PM

Heartfullly sorry for the loss of a great friend and great soul of a man. I am going to to miss you Tom, God Bless. My thoughts and prayers are with Sandy, Alex, and Mitchell

Dan and Elaine Bergeron said : Guest Report Nov 03, 2024 at 3:27 PM

Tom will be sadly missed; he was a great guy, true craftsman, friend and relative. our hearts and prayers are with you and your family. when look at the brick work on front of our home will always think of Tom.

Angela Turmel said : Guest Report Nov 03, 2024 at 2:44 PM

If wealth was based on friendship and Tom was your friend, you indeed were rich! Tom was a selfless man, lending a hand to whomever needed it. Your garage is flooding, I'll come over, jack it up and lay brick to stop the water. Bike broke down on the side of the highway, I'll ride home and get my trailer. Your buying precast steps for the front of your house, ABSOLUTELY not, you buy the brick, I'll build your steps. He did all of these things, asking nothing in return. I will miss our dinners, riding with Tom and Sandy on Sundays, the not so quick howdoyado's and his unwavering honesty. Our lives will be a little more dulled without Tom in them. I miss him today, and I will miss him tomorrow. Until we meet again my friend, Rest in peace, I love you.

Pam and Sal Scafidi said : Guest Report Nov 03, 2024 at 10:25 AM

Tom flew out to Arizona to help us move back to New Hampshire. Tom and Sandy found the house that we live in now. He was a good friend from the first time we met him. You have helped so many people along the way, you will be missed by all. Sal and I miss you already. May God Bless you and keep you in his arms.

Wesley Raymond said : Guest Report Nov 03, 2024 at 9:30 AM

Tom, you were a very stand up gentleman, I appreciated you greatly, I not the only one. RIP my brother, until we meet again

Christine Manchini said : Guest Report Nov 03, 2024 at 12:35 AM

R.I.P. Tom. Thank you for the motorcycle ride. We got pulled over because we crossed Mass. lines with no helmet, lol. Good times... Your going to be missed, by many. You definitely made your mark in this world. God Speed, my friend. Enjoy the other side 🧡

William Meech said : Guest Report Nov 02, 2024 at 9:36 PM

R.I.P. Tom. You are a great friend to many and will always be remembered with Love. Condolences to the family.

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